she wants to spend time with me (im positive) (we go to different schools), and i want to spend time with her... its like she doesnt know how to make time for me. she constantly is doing unimportant things. help me out please
2007-01-28 17:18:09 · 6 answers · asked by Women Pleaser 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Explain to her that you love her independence, but you are feeling a bit neglected and enjoy her company too. Try to book a time and date together certain times of the week. I would not start bagging out her friends as they are important to a healthy relationship. Try to get yourself out more with your own friends as well. Communication is the key! If you do it in a non-confrontational way and she cares about you, I'm sure she will make more of an effort.
2007-01-28 17:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First problem, the things she does may seem unimportant to you , but may not be to her. So, don't even bring that into the question. I had this issue with my (now husband) when we first started dating. He wanted to spend all of his time playing video games and wanted me to just sit with him contently and watch or i could just go watch TV in another room. Well, I didn't like either b/c I missed him and his attention. I got involved in his video games and we started playing together. Then, he was content to put the controls down and we got some quality time. Moral of the story, involve yourself in her life. It may not be important to you, but she is, right?
2007-01-29 01:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply ask if she could make a personal day for you. Or get into a weekly schedual where you both leave some portion completely open for you and her to get together alone. Let her know (and you better make this the truth) that you understand her wanting to have fun with her friends and wants to do her own stuff but you enjoy being with her and want more time like that.
2007-01-29 01:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by rezruf 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well what seems unimportant to u may not be for her be careful of how u word things to her she may take it the wrong way possibly just like i did...ne way sorry bout that here's my advice....i say tell her u want to spend more time w/ her and that ur feeling left out by her spending so much time w/ others...chances r that she wants to spend more time w/ u too.
2007-01-29 01:25:34 · answer #4 · answered by abra_got_personality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And the world revolves around you right? Your girlfriend has the right to do things that SHE wants to do without you. You don't own her, she has the right to have her own friends and to spend time with them. Get over yourself and stop trying to control her life. She doesn't have to spend every moment out side of school with you.
2007-01-29 01:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try putting somthingthing together for you and her& if that don't work tell her you would like for you and her to spend time together just the 2 of you.
2007-01-29 01:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by queen quin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋