He doesnt realize how it is affecting our relationship...no matter how much I try and talk to him.. I am not breaking up with him..what can I do?! Thanx
2007-01-28 17:17:05 · 11 answers · asked by Red_lipstick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like it isn't going to work out. If he's not willing to do his part and communicate with you, there's only so much you can do by yourself. Sorry hun.
2007-01-28 17:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not willing to help fix things, there's a problem. If he doesn't realize how it affects you, there's a problem. If you're not telling him that it affects you, then there's an even bigger problem. You should tell him straight up how you feel about this. If he really cared for you, he would be communicating with you all the time! Maybe he's going through something right now. But he's not communicating with you, so how would you know, right? Soo, you should tell him that communication is the KEY. Without communication, trust, and love, there is not relationship. You should tell him that if he's not willing to fix things, then maybe you should be with someone else that IS willing to fix it. The relationship won't last without communication. Once you have communication, then you can take it from there. GOOD LUCK. =)
2007-01-28 17:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by 143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable with the fact that it may never get better, don't break up with him. But really, can you be happy with maybe a lifetime with someone who doesn't communicate with you? You are doing what you can now. You are telling him how you feel. You could write him a note of how serious you take this, but if you aren't willing to let him go...why should he change?
2007-01-28 17:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 03:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read the book "Why talking isn't Enough"....talking isn't the way through everythine. most of the time it just makes things worse and it's just a way to throw insults at eachother and make no real head-way whatsoever. If you're committed to working on this relationship, READ THAT BOOK!!!...I was the same way as you and my boyfriend is just like yours, after reading that book, I changed. The relationship changed, and miraculously, my boyfriend started opening up. Trust me, if you listen to the advise in that book, a world of change witll come with it. Good change!!...try it! Might seem dorky or whatever but trust me on this one....
2007-01-28 17:22:18 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him, hes not worth it if hes not willing to strengthen the realtionship.it takes 2 sweetie,
2007-01-29 03:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on or stop complaining! You've been trying and he just isn't getting it so why waste time being unhappy.
2007-01-28 17:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people are not communicative,but good at heart.Accept him as he is.
2007-01-28 17:22:22 · answer #8 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him an ultimatum scare him a bit if he isnt moved then your assed out cause obviously your not leaving him lol
2007-01-28 17:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by realist86 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's just not that into you? does he like how the relationship is progressing? ask him that. peace
2007-01-28 17:26:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋