my ex's new bf is a tall skinny kid with some small muscles... we are on the same basketball team... bla bla bla... he is a pain in the butt, and trys to make me mad-- it works... sometimes i feel like killing him... and it has nothing to do with my ex- i dumped her-- cuz she is crazy... so im not missing that.. but he drives me CRAZY and they both go behind my back and try to turn my friends agains me saying bad things... any help with how to controll myself around him?-- or should i just knock him on his *** and see what happens next.... im way stronger- so not worried about fighing him..- he is afraid of me..
2007-01-28 17:05:10 · 12 answers · asked by brian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be the better person and ignore him. who cares about him and the ex girlfriend... they obviousely want it to bother you..dont give them the pleasure...but if you must intimidate the s*** out of him.
2007-01-28 17:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Suze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to fight him or not is for you to decide, but what I can suggest you is to choose carefully where and when to fight. Don't let him get on your nerves and jump him at school, cuz that way you'll probably get in trouble. If you want to knock him out, make sure that there are no teachers or his buddys around, and/or take a couple of your friends to cover your back. Ex's and derivates are freakin crazy, most of the time, and you can never know WTF will happen next.
2007-01-29 01:16:52 · answer #2 · answered by San La Muerte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take him aside as if her were a friend tell him that she is a great girl, (or some nice BS like that) tell him why you left her and then tell him that your suprised that she was able to land him (more BS ) because you thought that he could do much better than her and end it with (a little more BS) say you must really love her. within a week or so he should be dumping her. the side efct could be that you and he become friends but at least he wont be on your back. good luck
2007-01-29 01:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by bakagaijinmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knock him on his butt in way that won't injure him. Ladies, those of you who think the annoyer should "just be ignored" don't understand how us males work. Sounds like the punk needs a little whompin for his own good. Just make sure the response is well measured. I suppose if you want to really punish him, you'd let him go on being an annoying twit: in that regard, the punk's crime is also his punishment, being allowed to behave like a **** makes him a **** in perpetuity.
2007-01-29 01:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends should have your back no matter what they say (maybe you need new ones) but just tell them that for whatever reason they are trying to bring you down and not to believe any of it. As far as fighting him... don't waste your time on that loozar. He doesn't know you so all that BS he's spouting means nothing and once he sees he can't get a reaction out of you he'll move on.
2007-01-29 01:13:09 · answer #5 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'er probably laughing at you, you've proven to be immature and childish and if it didn't bother you that your ex had a boyfrined you wouldn't be having the feelings that you do. You dumped her, and you don't like the fact that she has moved on while you're obviously jealous. I'm with them. I think it's funny too.
2007-01-29 01:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be the bigger person and ignore their immature childish games.
And it helps by not comparing yourself to him or talking bad about him, cause that really just makes you feel worse.
Just move on and forget it. Remain cordial, but that's it.
Good luck!
2007-01-29 01:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY IM IN BASKETBALL TO!!!!! lol....yeah just "accidentally" take him down in practice=) lol...hhahahahaha.....ohhhh that would be funny....yeah that would annoy me to....just take him out in practice...but remeber the "accident" part kk....have a great night kk =)
2007-01-29 01:11:08 · answer #8 · answered by Bethyboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them, n first thing is get a better girl friend
2007-01-29 01:16:21 · answer #9 · answered by lovely g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore the immature baby. don't stoop to their level.
2007-01-29 01:09:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋