Theres this girl ive fallen for, i love her more then anything in this world. She told me she wanted to be friends a couple months ago. Its been so hard trying to get over the rejection of my first love. But latley ive been so confused with her, she sendin me all theses signals of wanting to be with me, but im not sure if i can take the risk of getting recjected twice, what should i do?
2007-01-28 17:05:03 · 9 answers · asked by aces_wild87 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you should have a sit down talk with her and say "I remember that you told me you just wanted to remain friends, so why all the mixed messages??" If y'all are true friends she should be able to explain this to you.
I really don't know what she is doing or saying, but it's not fair to you if she tells you no yet leads you on. It's not fair to tease you like that, and true friends do not do that.
Just be straight up and honest with her and good luck! She may like you!!! :)
2007-01-28 17:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that she made her feelings clear the first time, and that she should not be sending you mixed signals at this point in time. If she feels differently about you, your question of being rejected again rears its ugly head.
The fear of rejection can be overcome. If it happens, you can say well that person is going to end up regretting her decision. She has no idea what she is giving up. What she wants sells me short and I won't go with it. You then have the power, the control, the ability to destroy your heartbreak. Don't give up your power to control your life.
2007-01-29 01:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, I think maybe I met a guy like you a couple of months ago. Nope I didn't tell the guy I wanted to be "just" friends with him, but hell I feel like it. Only because in 6 weeks we've been on 1 date. I've asked him twice to go out "socially" and he's declined. He didn't have plans, just seems like he's very cautious--- so afraid until it makes me uncomfortable. He's just to me someone who I am going to be just friends with. I like a much more confident man who is comfortable. I think this guy somehow "in his own mind" feels that I like him because he keeps calling me. I am not a "telephone" person and if he's afraid of me ---he needs to move on. I'm not interested.
Maybe you need to do the same.
2007-01-29 01:13:32 · answer #3 · answered by gneiss_8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't fear rejections, it is a part of our life,the more we've have rejections the better,we become wise and experience to deal of what we want in life. Dating is a learning experience.Nothing ventured nothing gained.
2007-01-29 01:15:51 · answer #4 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to sit down and have a heart to heart with her. you need to let her know that you still have feelings for her and ask her if she has changed her mind about you. one thing guys seem to miss is when they ask a girl out she says no and then thats it...she may have had time to think about how great you guys could be but she doesnt know how to tell you cause she already turned you down. so just talk to her. good luck sweet heart!
2007-01-29 01:13:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why arent you being friends with her then? if youre pushing for a relationship more than friends and she's not ready for it yeah you may get rejected again. peace
2007-01-29 01:10:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will handle rejection when you mature. Doing nothing will get you nothing in anything in life.
2007-01-29 01:10:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. If she rejects you, at least you'll know and you can move on. Why put yourself through this agony?
2007-01-29 01:11:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have confidence.This time its going to work out.Go ahead. Al the best.
2007-01-29 01:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋