going around telling his friends what we have been doing and that pisses me off because i told him not to say anything!! what should i do to let him know im pissed cause right now i wanna rip his head off because one of his friends called today and was like so you guys had fun huh and then asking me what we did even though he already knows!!!!!!!!! what do i do with my bf HELP
2007-01-28 16:58:20 · 19 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's not okay that he told his friend what you did after u told him not to. and it only made the situation worse when his friends called up asking about it. tell him that you can't get further in your relationship if you can't trust him. ask him why he told. maybe his jerky friends were making fun of him because you guys had not did anything yet. have some feelings if that's what happened. have him tell his friends to cool it. it's normal for guys to tell about their sexual experiences but you told him not to. and his friends didn't show respect for either one of u.
2007-01-28 17:11:21 · answer #1 · answered by sofine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest taking the opposite approach. Tell all his friends and yours about all the things he didnt do. Make him look like a total weekling in the sac. Or even better, make up a bunch of gross stuff that he wanted to do that you turned down. Teach him the lesson of keeping his mouth shut by opening yours. Once all his friends and family think he is a sexual degenerate he will stop talking about what he did with you.......Also...you should probly be prepared to never talk to him again just in case he gets angry.
2007-01-29 01:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by tonedeafchipmunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i would be pissed off, but we all know that everyone talks about that sort of stuff - ESPECIALLY WOMEN. The only difference is that women are more discreet about it and make sure that they only tell a close friend (or anyone) as long as they promise not to tell anyone. Sound familiar ladies? Yeah, we know what you girls talk about when you get together!
2007-01-29 01:14:08 · answer #3 · answered by rmxer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things: first, if you're not proud of it, you shouldn't be doing it.
That said, there is such a thing as privacy, and your "boyfriend" has totally violated yours. If had answered a good friend's question about how far you two had gone, that would be one thing, but this is blatent disrespect for you, and for himself.
He should not go around bragging to his friends or giving out explicit details to anyone, whether or not you two have talked agreed not to. If he is allowing his friends to treat you like this, he doesn't care about you. You deserve better, so get out there and find it.
2007-01-29 01:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him in the gonads. I mean, there is absolutely no excuse for kissing and telling, and that's on top of the fact that you told him not to? And then his friend calls to be part of the joke? Girl, heed my advice, and kick him in the gonads.
Then, while he is curling in fetal position, explain to him that that's exactly how you felt when you found out that he's such a loud-mouthed b****.
2007-01-29 01:06:06 · answer #5 · answered by San La Muerte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him off from the "extras" until he straightens up! He must not know that when a man brags about things like that to other men they fantasize about it and the woman. He's putting you in a bad position, sista!
2007-01-29 01:08:40 · answer #6 · answered by saturn man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who does not respect the intimacy you shared is the kind of ignorance you should break up with. He is not someone you can share private confidential conversations with. In a nutshell he lacks respect for you and will eventually cheat on you
2007-01-29 01:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by Hazel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's rude and obviously he doesn't respect you or y'alls relationship.
You need to have a serious sit down talk with him.
That's also rude and immature of his friends to even mention it, much less poke fun at it.
He needs to be a man and quit trying to brag to the guys.
2007-01-29 01:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time your boyfriend calls and wants to get together, tell him that unfortunately you can't see him, as you don't want your private life spread out in public the next day. He might get the idea that he is in danger of losing you if he doesn't learn to keep his big mouth shut.
2007-01-29 01:07:54 · answer #9 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell my boyfriend off. He is showing you absolutely no respect by telling his friends about what you two do together. He sounds incredibly immature. I wouldn't want to be with someone who has to behave like that.
2007-01-29 01:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋