every time im around a women I go blank and cant seem to think of anything to say
2007-01-28 16:55:15 · 12 answers · asked by lstbob51 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get more comfortable with practise. Women are just people like you. We all have fears of saying the wrong thing and fears of rejection. Just start slow. The best thing to do is approach women you know through school or work. You have more topics in common that way. Just for the practise. When you are comfortable with that, you can move slowly onto women you meet outside. Take your time. Once the ice is broken, conversation flows pretty naturally.
2007-01-28 17:00:02 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You hafta not care. Does she like you? You don't care. Does she think you look silly? You don't care.
You don't care b/c your objective is to hit on as many women as possible so that you go through all the ones that reject you as quickly as possible to get to the ones that want you.
As for what you say...just be a dumbass with a wallet. Wow. Nice shoes. Want to get a drink after _____. What does it take to get a drink around here...Hey, if you can get the bartender's attention would you please take this twenty and get us both a drink...what's your name...AND ALWAYS always ask for her number.
If you're rejected put it out of your mind and move on to the next possibility. Its a numbers game and you have work to do.
2007-01-28 17:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nonny D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to start talking to complete strangers face to face, even if it is just to comment about the weather. This will help you talk to anyone in any situation. And remember, you should talk to women just like you are talking to any other friend or family, that way you are just being yourself.
2007-01-28 17:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ur around women , dont really get the impression that they are going to sleep with you. Treat them like u would treat any of your guy friends.
2007-01-28 17:01:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be VERY hard talking to women - but practice makes perfect! Keep talking to girls and eventually it will get easier! Good luck!
2007-01-28 17:00:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I remember being 15. Its difficult to talk when you're looking at their **** and booty only two feet away.If you still gonna look atleast keep the four foot rule.Clears the mind by two feet.
2007-01-28 17:01:34 · answer #6 · answered by Yukon Cornelius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well here is not really anything u can do but just try not blank out. dude just see it this way its just a girl she wont bite. and if she does she has problems and you dont want that.
2007-01-28 17:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by stunner' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you talk, the more practice you get. The more practice you get, the better you become at conversing. Don't be afraid of making a fool of yourself!
2007-01-28 16:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by A.I. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just think of girls as your little sister, till the lights go out.
2007-01-28 16:59:43 · answer #9 · answered by Dorothy and Toto 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what your going through i go through the SAME thing!!!
2007-01-28 16:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋