Well I told him I want to go to one..we have been together for 2 years..I told him I wanna go there and get stuff..he was just kinda like "Yeah whatever" I dotn get it! Why isnt he all into it..he says he is shy...with that kinda thing..tha he says that he sint shy with me though..so im confused..like does he wanna try out this stuff!?!/1/ What can I do or say to make him feel better or???
2007-01-28 16:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He might just feel embarrassed about going into a store like that.
Go get something on your own and bring it home... I am sure that he will feel more excited about it in the privacy of his own home.
Maybe he will loosen up about it then.
2007-01-28 16:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably feels like he dosen't perform good enough. So make sure you ease him down a bit that its not his lousyness in bed. Once he tries the stuff out, he will love it(I was in the same situation a couple years back) and when we finally tried the stuff, it was pretty HOT!
2007-01-29 01:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by dwntwnbadboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of people do not feel comfortable in sex stores, if this is something new to him, you need to let him take it slow, he may be uncomfortable and need some time to get used to shopping at a "specialty" shop.
Dont really know him, as for myself I do not exactly spend my free time browsing through the "kinky" section at my local sex store...
2007-01-29 00:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Order a catalog or purchase stuff on line . Not everyone likes adult shops.
2007-01-29 00:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to take him there. he may not think you're serious or he may actually be shy, but i'm sure if you take control of the situation he would be very happy. just dont go by yourself they tend to find it a little strange when girls go in and buy things by themselves. good luck!
2007-01-29 00:56:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he's not getting any until he goes with you. If he still doesn't go DUMP HIM. Get someone who is a sexual acrobat and slightly kinky. Your present bf sounds like a real bore.
2007-01-29 00:55:28 · answer #6 · answered by morahastits 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find one that doesn't know him:)
2007-01-29 00:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably gay, but i'll go with you
2007-01-29 00:54:24 · answer #8 · answered by moocow1088 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋