Should Love have rules or does unconditional Love mean anything goes ?

Answer 1

Tricky question ~

Unconditional love doesn't have rules except maybe to remember to love yourself too. You can love someone unconditionally (like a cannibal or a child molestor, or an abusive partner), but choose not be with them because you love yourself as well.

And you can unconditionally love your child and not approve of behaviors that are unhealthy for them or others. Therefore, encouraging or tolerating anti-social behavior isn't really a loving action.

But you can still unconditionally love someone that acts outside of what you will tolerate. Guess anything goes, unless it doesn't.

Answer 2

Unconditional love is an ideal but is not real. Even Mother Theresa had her conditions. As for rules, no, there are none. Love is an intangible force, a flow, a phenomenon. It can't be explained, it just exists. It flows within you and without you. I am guessing that you are talking about the love between humans. Love is much bigger than that. You can show love to a field mouse and it will respond. It is a wonderful thing and it is bigger than us. We are just lucky to be able to tap into it. No rules. Anything goes. Haven't you heard the expression, "All's fair in love and war?" Well, forget war. Focus on love.

Answer 3

Unconditional love must include respect. That is the rule. Mutual respect must exist in all relationships, or there is no relationship. Unconditional love means that there are no obligations and no judgments. However, it should go both ways in order to work properly; otherwise one is left being a doormat.

Answer 4

Unconditional love does not mean anything goes. It is a vulnerable but the purest form of love you can have. Unconditional love will never say I will love you if---unconditional love is present tense---I am in love with you. No conditions, no pre-requisites. Does it have rules? Not in the conventional sense--but you mus tend it and nurture it every day.

Answer 5

True love doesn't need rules, when you genuinely love a person and care about their feelings and emotions you respect and cherish them and your love for them IF IN FACT it is true , it would keep you from doing things to hurt that person. True love is also unconditional which means you forgive errors. BUUUUTTTT and it's a big but, for unconditional love to be successful both people have to be TRUEly in love or else one mate will always be abusing the others forgiveness and taking for granted their kindess and unconditional acceptance.

Answer 6

Unconditional love means that I love you unconditionally, there isn't anything you could do or say that would take away that love.This is usually in a parent /child relationship not a lover relationship.
Lovers/spouses need rules...or someone ends up getting hurt!

Answer 7

Unconditional love has no rules. You do have the choice, however, whether or not to stay with someone who treats you badly. It is possible to love someone and not want them around.

Answer 8

this is what i think about love i have unconditional love for a girl and when she came back from her trip and told me she didnt want to talk to me anymore and i had confessed a few days before that i love her she told me she didnt want to be my freind anymore and i told her this,"Its good that you came strait up about this but let me tell you the truth my love for you is unwavering and unconditional i want you to be happy even if its not with me or im not part of your happiness in any way shape or form isabella i love you.

Answer 9

All love is anything goes. And painful at the end. God, I wish love me with a rule book. It doesn't though . Best of luck to ya.

Answer 10

Rules: # respect each other's opinions, likes and disllikes. # respect each other's privacy. # respect each other's body. # appreciate opinions, likes, dislikes, privacy and body! # do what you can to make each other comfortable, happy, and grateful! And, don't take it for granted that anything goes!