I've only had one real boyfriend my whole life. I was 18 when we got together and we just broke up when I was 24 last year. I've been sort of seeing someone new and I can't get him out of my head. But sometimes he talks about how hot other girls are and it bothers me alot. Should I move on maybe? It really makes me uncomfortable.
2007-01-28 16:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi I dont know how long you have been seeing this guy but you should tell him how you feel communication is the best way in a relationship , you could mention to him if he is serious about the two of you and if he is not then move on ,he needs to grow up and treat you with respect, i know it can hurt but its better to find out now than to find out later on down the track
2007-01-28 16:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. You've just been thrown back into the dating world and yes, it's hard and sucks. But no matter how hard it gets, he IS out there so don't settle for less. Try a few more guys out (so like, don't stop looking or dump him after one flaw) but just get back into the game. But talking about other girls is annoying don't go farther. And don't talk about your ex too much either (though it's hard...6 years..wow..). Are you sure you didn't talk about him too much (cause that's natural) and he's just returning the favor/hinting?
2007-01-29 00:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem with my fiance, he would talk about he was in love with his last girlfriend and how he would've married her if she'd stuck around. We've been married now for 18 years, and if I had've known what I know about him now I would've run a mile. Take the hint, he's not the marrying kind.
2007-01-29 00:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he talks about how hot other girls are, you should dump him whether it makes you uncomfortable or not. If he cared for you at all he wouldn't mention the other girls at all.
2007-01-29 00:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't stop after you tell him it makes you uncomfortable ... DUMP HIM. Personally, I can't imagine how some guys are so insensitive, but give him a chance to knock it off ... he may be just a bit dense.
2007-01-29 00:41:40 · answer #5 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like he just keep thing simple, you and he have been
of sort of dating so just take it slow and see how it goes, if
he start to make it more upsetting then talk to him about it
if not then time to move on , he might be just keep the option
open and you should do the same.
2007-01-29 00:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know you are uncomfortable about the subject, but as long as he is just talking about them instead of persuing them, you got nothing to worry about...I know there are alot of other pretty ladies for my guy to consider going after, but I know in my heart that it's only me he wants and he is with.
2007-01-29 00:41:47 · answer #7 · answered by white trash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's talking about other girls because you keep talking about your ex?
2007-01-29 00:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Xfactor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have u told him it makes you uncomfortable?
2007-01-29 00:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by itaintnojunk.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to waste your time with someone who does this. My man doesn't and I wouldn't put up with it. You deserve better!
2007-01-29 00:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by LSD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋