When she politely responds but does not offer any additional information about herself or request any additional information from me.
2007-01-28 16:32:18 · 31 answers · asked by Spandito 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This situation would cover both online and in person interactions when meeting a person for the first time.
2007-01-28 16:43:36 · update #1
I am generally a fairly patient person who believes in giving people their personal freedom.
I don't like to be rude or pushy.
2007-01-28 16:46:40 · update #2
definitely not interested.
even though im shy, i would still ask a lil something in response to u to show i see your effort.
she probably gets hit on a lot and doesnt want u to try.
it's just as uncomfortable to reject as it is to be rejected.
shes givin u the heads up not to go there.
2007-01-28 16:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may just not be getting it. Try being more direct, ask if she has a boyfriend...this is just a casual question that doesnt have to give you away and it will immediately tell you if its even worth it, it also lets her clarify other things, like sexual orientation and general interest.
Also, she may just need to know more about you to determine if shes interested. It really depends on what you ask her.
Try different types of questioning, determine her level of interest by the length of her responses and adjust your questioning to the effect of getting lengthier responses. Above all, be confident in your delivery and alwayse be ready to answer accordingly. Relax, like its conversation without pretense, like with a good friend or family.
2007-01-28 16:45:40 · answer #2 · answered by Zanzibar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, but are you asking the right kind of questions? Some questions require only a short response or a yes or no answer. Ask her a question that requires her to think about her answer.Or ask about her! Something that would allow her to elaborate a bit! Good luck.
P.S. Then if she does not go into detail or ask a question of you... I would find another girl who WANTS to talk to you!
2007-01-28 16:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Bijous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally when people do not want to know about you they are either not interested enough or they are a bit self centred. Not offering information about herself would say to me that she is not even interested you knowing who she is. To be fair here, it depends on how long you have known her, she might take some time to warm to you.
2007-01-28 16:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by altern 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. She could just be shy and/or not very trusting of people. I wouldn't give up yet. Try gentle interactions to let her know that she can trust you. Some of the most beautiful people can be shy by nature.
2007-01-28 16:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by danaluana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes definitely. In you, she sees not the recognition of 'value' within her materialistic attention span. Yeah she may be a cool person, nonetheless she only skims along the surface of life. My advice to you is, pierce through this agitating situation and find confidence and faith in yourself.
You're so money and you don't even know it.
2007-01-28 16:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by mack_cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that is a fairly safe assumption. Unless she is really shy. If that is the case then she might just be reserved and one of those people that it takes a bit to warm up.
2007-01-28 16:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by sugar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be, But the way things are today, women are very cautious, since she is going very slow with information, You need to go slow, so she can observe you, to see what kind of person you are, ok
2007-01-28 16:42:02 · answer #8 · answered by Diana J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi
2007-01-28 16:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by beezerbear90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either not interested or just shy. Give her another shot, and then let it go if she still doesn't respond well.
2007-01-28 16:36:10 · answer #10 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋