I love this girl but she has a boyfriend we used to go out but broke up a while back but i still love her. Im pretty sure that she only likes this guy so should i tell her i love her?
2007-01-28 16:28:48 · 26 answers · asked by juz_6464 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Normally I would say "no," but the first two letters of this post are N-O, so I think I should agree with them.
2007-01-28 16:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I mean if she loves her boyfriend what do you expect for her to do? If you feel like you must say something just say you still haven't gotten over her and if she ever needs anything you will always be there for her - girls like to hear that stuff but don't focus too much on how you feel about her bc that might annoy her or her boyfriend might find out and get mad
2007-01-28 16:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well on a scale of 1-10 how much do you love her ? If it's 10 tell her you still love her but be prepared to deal with whatever comes out of you telling her . She might take you back or she might stop talking to you ...It's up to you. But I say tell her..then if she rejects ya you'll have your answer.. once that happens you can finally move on right ?
2007-01-28 16:36:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should, you will only offend the guy and cause problems for the girl. pl respect them and try looking for a girl who is out there looking for a guy, not a girl who happily chose her guy. since i'm not single i wouldn't even imagine such a thing and would consider it an insult if it happened .
think of the reasons that you two broke up about .
think if you were with her would you like it if she was approched by another guy? i think not.
you have to move on .
good luck in your life
2007-01-28 16:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by sweet tooth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should why go your whole life keeping that in when she might feel the same way but because you never said anything she won't know then she could end up with someone eles that could have been you. i don't see any harm of getting that off your chest as long as your not wanting to cause problems for her and her boyfriend
2007-01-28 16:39:32 · answer #5 · answered by sxyrd45 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you know the girl feels the same way then no this will only cause problems and you may lose a really good friend in the process.
2007-01-28 16:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, why sacrifice someone else's happiness for your own. Maybe she is happy with this new guy, and you opening your mouth might strain the relationship they have. Point is, someone is going to end up hurt, if not everyone involved. Move on, as she obviously has!
There is someone else out there waiting for you...get lookin!
Good luck!
2007-01-28 16:33:52 · answer #7 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok,well half of me says yes or no -but let me break it down.
you can tell her you feel that way,but the result of whats said may depend on who broke up.you'd want to remember that.
Most boyfriends will go crazy,some girls may be loudmouths or something,so there's a pro and con,if you're ready to put up with this guy.Or he'll understand,we both don't know the result.
The girl i like just walks past me and stuff...but she talks to my other family members.
2007-01-28 16:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by D'M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it man, you'll only make life harder for everyone involved.
Just wait and see what happens with the other guy. Be read to pick up the pieces when they go down in flames.
2007-01-28 16:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If she can, become friends with her again. Then, after she breaks up with this boyfriend, make your move and comfort her.
If she refuses to become friends, give up. As the saying goes, "there are other fish in the sea." God will lead you where you need to be. You need to trust in Him and know that eventually, you will be happy.
2007-01-28 16:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by senior07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, hang back. You'd just put her in a really awkward situation AND likely get yourself stepped on. I'd wait until she's no longer in a relationship before approaching her again.
2007-01-28 16:31:48 · answer #11 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋