me and this guy have been going on dates for about a month in half now and we do something every sunday. (we don't plan on going out every sunday we are just both not busy on sunday) like go to movies and just hang out. There have been two times were he was over until after 2am watching a movie. About 3 weeks ago i told him that i liked him and i asked him what his feelings were towards me were and he said that the time we spend together has been very enjoyable. That was like 3 weeks ago. After i told him i liked him we still hang out. I want to bring something up as far being a couple or a relationship or whatever. Should I? and if so what should i say? please help me
2007-01-28 16:28:12 · 8 answers · asked by Jalana 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah you should, I mean, its been long enough. Just tell him you are starting to like him more than just a friend, then see what he says back to you. Should work...
2007-01-28 16:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go ahead and ask your questions. If he won't give you an answer or the answer is not what you want, look for someone else. Why waste your time with someone who can't or won't talk with you? Communication is the Most Important thing in a relationship.
2007-01-29 00:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by bugs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should ask him what he thinks about you. and how long you two can hang out with "just friends" label.
but if u had previously talked about this matter with him, then probably he is not very serious to answer this question. he just wants to go on without any responsibility.
Pretend to be buzy or not well enough. just to avoid him. if he loves you he will look after you, and you will come to know how caring and responsible he is.
2007-01-29 00:38:56 · answer #3 · answered by Raj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should ask him out like for u 2 to be bf and gf. and if he says yes then he must really like u and if he says no then just keep going on ur lil' adventures and maybe later he'll like u or not and if he doesn't there are "plenty of fish in the sea"
2007-01-29 00:38:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sara R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let things flow...maybe you could ask him if you guys are a couple or what a little later, just ask straight up, like whats up with us. He seems like he likes you but is kinda shy. Good Luck.
2007-01-29 00:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by madison007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he shy? If yes, you need to make the first move.
Invite him over and cook him dinner, and make it romantic.
Then let nature take its course.
2007-01-29 00:36:40 · answer #6 · answered by kwjt 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DON'T ASK OR PRESSURE HIM, JUST LET THINGS FALL INTO PLACE. SOMETIMES BEING GOOD FRIENDS IS BETTER THAN BEING LOVERS.AND YOU DON'T WANT TO GET PLAYED.SOME GUYS ARE WORRIED ABOUT GETTING THE BOOTY RATHER THAN COMMITTING.YOU DON'T WANT TO GET HURT IN THE END.
2007-01-29 00:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by chris m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snuggle up to him next time you watch the movie or sit real close so you have body contact
2007-01-29 00:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by mr.ask_a_lot 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋