what does how you look have anything to do with being happy with who you are? The Bible says we are made in GOD's image, and that we are fearfully and wonderfully made. Certainly you can like you no matter how you look. Most of the time people have trouble with their appearance BECAUSE they feel poorly about themselves. it is inside out Change on the inside and you will change the outside too - it doesn't matter what anyone says. I'm not a girl so take what I say with a grain of salt. But it amazes me the girls who tell me they don't think they look nice, and I look at them and think wow what a pretty girl. It's all who you ask.
2007-01-28 16:26:55
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answered by on_the_move4ever 3
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Look in the mirror. Do you have eyes to see with? Is your face needing reconstructive surgery because of an accident or fire?Are you so deformed that people look away when they see you?You are a product of two people that are probably proud of you.As for who you are,only you know your heart and if it isn't to your satisfaction, change it. Be friendlier,more compassionate, try volunteering to work with older people who can't do some things that you are able to do. Make your life happier and quit feeling sorry for yourself.Look around, there are always people worse off than you. Be grateful for what you have and learn to put it to better use.
2007-01-29 00:28:37
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answered by Anonymous
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The first thing you need to do is to stop comparing yourself to the models & celebrities on the covers of womens magazines like Cosmo. Remind yourself that the reason they look so great is because they spent 6 hours on hair & makeup and then their pictures are air-brushed to give them a perfect look. Learn to love yourself as an unique individual and your inner beauty will shine through.
2007-01-29 00:27:10
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answered by Xfactor 3
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Write a list of all your good qualities--those in your looks, and those in your personality.
Then, write a list of your bad qualities (again, in both departments)
I think you'll find that the good outweighs the bad. The bad, in most cases, can be turned around.
If you've been acting like a snob--you can change that.
If you've been hanging with bad people and doing bad things--you can change that.
If you have been eating all junk food and are overweight and have some pimples--you can change that.
If you are unhappy with your hair, you can change that too.
There are all sorts of self-help books in the library. You can change a bad personality to a good one. You can change your clothing size and weight. You can change how you treat other people. You can stop bad habits, and replace them with good habits.
2007-01-29 00:29:54
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answered by Holiday Magic 7
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If you don't like the way you are or the way you look, change it.
Don't fall into the media's definition of looking good and how to be happy. They just want to take your money.
You decide what makes you happy and what makes you look good.
Let no one else decide that for you.
You decide and then take action towards those changes.
2007-01-29 00:25:58
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answered by czar 2
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The only way to be happy with yourself is to accept yourself.
Learn to identify and prize your strengths and find humor in your weaknesses.
2007-01-29 00:27:06
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answered by John B 2
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Get some confidence girl! Hang out with people who make U feel good about yourself. And do things to feel better about yourself, like excercise, haircut, new clothes...etc...
2007-01-29 00:30:49
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answered by madison007 1
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Well if you love your self you should be happy with some one else you like. And if you don't like your self well you could still be with some one you like.
2007-01-29 00:24:17
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answered by Kevin the Cool Dude 1
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You have to love yourself first. You have to be confident and not second guess yourself about everything you do and every decision you take.
2007-01-29 00:23:33
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answered by **brainy licious**J;-D 3
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it takes time try just finding a quite place and try to think it over and really meditate on tryin to love ur self
2007-01-29 00:23:18
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answered by joe v 3
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