Does anyone feel their life is "normless"? like time has stopped??????

Question

I don't have an official definition of the word "normless", but it’s the only word, I feel can describe my life right now.

I describe my life as “normless” right now as all I do is Sleep for about 12-16 hours, shower, eat , play ps2 and for 50% I’m on here. I avoid my friends as if they were STDs

90% of the time, I am consciously daydream (have this alternative life where I am basically a beautiful mastermind and everyone loves me - bit unrealistic thou)

Days just pass without a thought.

Does anyone have a life like this??? Is your life normless??? Or is it just me (again)

Erm its been happening since i started Uni, and has got worse ever since Xmas.

Answer 1

Hello,

I don't know how old you are, but you seem not to be working or going to scholl, if not you would not have that much time to sleep and play (unless it would be vacation time).

If i'm replying your question, i don't feel my life is "normless", but i feel like time has stopped.

My life has stopped at the exact moment a policeman came to our home to tell me my Dearest Husband passed away.Since, my life and time has stopped around me. However, i have heavy responsibilities towards my family and i have no other choice to "live" for them. But i totally stopped living for myself. I "follow to live" through my Husband's memories and the plans we had and because family needs me.

I have a lot of things to do all day long and it keeps me very busy.

I am a dreamer by nature also, but i don't let dream going over the reality of life which is very hard at this time.

If you evoid your friends, maybe you like being alone or prefer contacting them through the Internet or the phone. Some persons prefer that way of having friends and there is nothing wrong about that.

Are you sure you are not going through a depression or a depressive mood also, i say so because of the number of hours you are actually sleeping. If you believe your mood is depressive, you might want to consult a doctor.

About the fact you daydream about the fact you are loved by everyone, maybe you feel lonely (not having a boyfriend or girlfriend) and it is your way to feel better about that feeling everybody loves you. Maybe you are a big dreamer and again prefers loneliness. It is to you to find out asking you the right questions. Maybe you can ask to a doctor about that if you do not want to ask to a parent or a close friend, because at times, it is often easier to talk about personal things to a stranger, because he/she doesn't know you and you won't have the judment of close persons. But, also, at times, if you feel more comfortable with them, closer people can also help you more, it is up to you to see how you feel about that.

Unless you have a lot of money, you won't be able to live your life sleeping that much, because work will take you time too.

I also already heard about some people who really need to sleep a lot, again, you should maybe see with a doctor.

Good luck anyway.
I hope it helps.

Answer 2

not just you.. i lay in bed all day long .. get out of it to take kids to school.. and then back in bed. only to get out of it to pick up kids or 3 times a week drag my lazy but to the dr.. other than that.. i do nothing but watch tv with i dont actually watch.. because i have not attention span.. i feel like im in some sort of bubble where i can see life going on around me but i cant really get to it to be a part of it.. nothing realy makes sense most of the time because everything sounds like the school teacher from the charlie brown snoopy show. wap-wap-wap-wap-wap
i dissociate alot when i do decide to emerge from my darkened room.. i dont have friends and it seems like my favorite past time over the past years has gone from being a professional barrel racer to a pro a downloading mp3s to my ipod
im now a pathetic, lonely,, bitter, hostile, sometimes vilont, seemingly insane, disabled 30 year old who has faded into the woodworks of my home. hummm now would that be considered normless by your means??

Answer 3

dude you need to get out and do something. When you are like 60 and you're in terrible shape from such a sedentary lifestyle and all alone because you never tried to socialize you will wish you could have gone back and changed it.

I have battled depression most of my life and so I know it can be hard to try getting out and sometimes you don't feel like being around people but if you don't fight it off you won't go anywhere in life.

Good luck man.

Answer 4

man your lucky, i wish days passed away without a thought for me. I cannot get out of the moment, my days are like eternity.
anyways, advice: ur prob a superhero unknowingly and this is ur crazy childhood background. i hope i get to read about u and see the ensuing movie
on a more serious note, how long has this been going on for? like a week or as long as you can remember? if its be going on for quite some while than you should either talk with a doctor or try to get out and do more things so that your mind is stimulated
good luck!

Answer 5

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