I need advice/ strategy about a girl?

Question

Ok she is a recruiter, I am a lawyer, we are mid 20s. I went to see her to change jobs. As we met there was a chemistry I thought. It was actually quite hard being interviewed by her, there was a lot of eye contact. She is pretty and came across relatively confidently but a hint of vulnerability. We had a few humourous moments. They only had wine glasses so she brought in water and two wine glasses to our meeting. At the end of the meeting I said "I'm hungry!" as in for the job, and she was like yeah I'm hungry too. So I've been playing it cool, we talked daily for a while professionally and communicate well. Anyway I went on this holiday as part of saying I would be hard to contact I said what it was like. And she was like "sounds great, I'm really envious". I don't think she would have bothered if she didn't have some interest. Is she interested? My radar says no bf but I am a guy what does it sound like to you girls?Strategy when our professional ties end? ta

Answer 1

I think you should wait until after you've found a new job, I am sure that there are policies preventing her from dating you whilst you're 'on the books'.
She sounds pretty shy, the comments she's been making seem like standard conversational devices as opposed to proactive flirtation. Maybe after she find you a job you can send her flowers/wine to thank her. If she's interested in you then she'll call you to thank you and you can see how the conversation goes from there.

Answer 2

ask approximately them, what they choose for to do,what hobbies they have. females like to chat approximately themselves so i could bypass that direction. that is taken me 2 ex better halves to discern this out yet whilst a woman asks you someting answer the total opposite of what you may routinely answer and you'd be wonderful, women think of opposite of adult adult males

Answer 3

I thought your maneuver of taking a holiday was brilliant and very suave because it brought in Challenge, which is a sense of "hard-to-get," indifference, and mystery. Challenge is the secret ingredient for a lasting and fulfilling relationship... and women, tired of being chased the whole time, love it!

If your radar says no, however, perhaps you are correct. Your gut feeling is your best weapon in the war of love but unfortunately too many men allow their high Interest Level in the girl and their egos to get in the way of listening to their intuition.

However, to be completely sure, when your professional ties end, ask her for her -home- phone number. The reason why is a simple test of -her- Interest Level in you (which at this point is the only thing that matters). My reasoning is that if girls like you, they help you (Reality/Common Sense Factor). So if she digs you, she would immediately give it to you without stuttering or hesitation (but if she gives you her cell, take it and give it a try anyways... since there are psychos out there and women must enforce security measures). If she stutters or hesitates, looking uncomfortable, you are out. Next girl!

After obtaining her home phone number (or cell), leave... maintain that Challenge you built up through your holiday. Keep her wondering about you by not calling her until 5-9 days later. That's right. 5-9 days later. Why? Because all the other chumps would call 1-2 days later. That makes you different and a Challenge. As they say, abstinence makes the heart grow fonder; don't feel pressured of other guys or time (time actually works for you!). When you arn't there and arn't talking to her, you can never give her reason to reject you.

When you do call, talk for only 3-5 minutes and ask her out for a weekday date (no Fridays or Saturdays, Sunday afternoon acceptable) in the next week. Always close the deal! Yes, in the next week, in order to maintain Challenge. Just say something like, "Hey Caprice, let's go out next Wednesday at 7:00 PM. We're going to go out for a game of pool and eat dinner. Can you make it?" Now shut up, and listen for her answer. If she gives you an enthusastic yes, you're in. If she says she can't make it, but tells you when she is next available (which I call a counteroffer) then you are in. Take it if it doesn't fall on a Friday or Saturday (at least until you've dated a couple times already). But if she gives you a pitiful excuse like, "I'll have to check my schedule" or "I have to go get my nails done" or whatever then you are OUT! Again, if a girl likes you, she'll help you and she will want to go out with you (Reality Factor)!

Assuming she says yes, go out on the date. Try to keep your mouth shut except to ask her open ended questions. Always keep it light and funny; no heavy subjects like sex, politics, and religion, and no negatives like that one time that girl broke your heart or whatever. Be Jim Carrey, Conan O'Brian, Cary Grant, Vince Vaughn, Owen Wilson. Make her do all the talking you can possibly make her do. Women love talking, you want to glean as much information about her as you can, and all the while, you need to maintain Challenge and a sense of mystery about you. Remember to be a gentleman and never initiate touching or touch back when she touches you. Don't ever give her more than 2 complements. When she asks you questions always come up with a humorous and witty answer, but don't give up your hand until you make her really work for it. Deflect the question like any good tv interviewee. For example, she asks, "How old are you?" then you say, "How old do you want me to be?" Or she asks, "Can you tell me something about you?" then you say, "Once I saw a ladybug, and it scared the hell out of me!" At the end of the date, if she clearly digs you via her body language (touching, eye contact, laughs at your corny jokes, etc) then you don't go in for the kiss... Reason? CHALLENGE! Keep her wanting more and she'll eventually rob banks for you. But if you arn't so sure she likes you, then go in for the kiss test. The kiss test is when you are 10 feet away from her doorstep and say, "I had a fun time." Then lean in for the kiss. If she kisses you then you are in, if she doesn't... well... maybe she does maybe she doesn't. But a second date can be tried (and btw, keep dates inexpensive as you can... to avoid gold diggers and Professional Daters who do it for a free dinner) and if she doesn't kiss you then, don't ask her out ever again.

Repeat the process until she's asking to see you exclusively or "Where is this going?" Don't give her gifts... it's so Anti-Challenge and it doesn't guarantee that she'll stay with you. And make sure you don't use "I love you." The only time to say I love you is when you made a really big mistake, are proposing to her, in the delivery room with your newborns, and finally when you are old and gray and about to die.

Answer 4

Go... go.. go...get her.. or you will regret it for the rest of your life. Send her flowers for no accasion. Girls like sweet and thoughtful guys.. Goodluck!

Answer 5

from the looks of it she feeling you. tell her how you really feel(stop talking business)get to know her better and see where it goes

Answer 6

ask her out. or else u'll regret this move if u dont.

Answer 7

she isnt interested in you.