I've been talking to this guy for a while and i really think he's the one(see I'm a virgin). I think that I can trust him, but I'm afraid because I wouldnt want "it" to be taken by the wrong person. I wouldn't want to regret it what do you think?
2007-01-28 15:40:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 17 and i've been going with him for about a year.
2007-01-28 16:44:56 · update #1
Only do it when it feels right - if he's the right guy, you'll know.
2007-01-28 17:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I feel that it is not advisable fot you to have sex with the guy unless both of you are commited for a relationship. There is no rush into such things. This is not a competition where you will lose face bcoz you don't have experience in sex. You must be firm if this guy is the right for you coz he may have met his dreamgirl without you knowledge..
2007-01-28 17:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... depends on ur age I suppose. I guess if ur around 15-17 maybe u should wait :S Wait and don't rush things. I know so many ppl who dated their boyfriends for a year even before they had sexual relations. But I guess the best thing is to follow ur heart and ur instict. Overall, I do suggest waiting. I wish I would have :S
2007-01-28 15:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound really unsure. thats not a decision that should have an iffy answer. Your safest bet is to wait until you get married, then you'll know for sure that its not the wrong guy! thats what i'm doing.
2007-01-28 15:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if this guy respects you and know hell be around in the long run and know if something goes wrong herll be there then go ahead but make sure he doesnt just want sex from you know that after the sex hell still be around and caring for you
2007-01-28 15:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by britt b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a huge problem that u have 2 slove with thinking down the road lyk wat if u n dis person break up or is the type that want just dis or is he the type i can still have a serious relationship wit.
2007-01-28 15:51:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then dont do it at all!
times have changed and seems you still traesure the old believes and tahts good. whatever happens, you should be ' willingly" and whatever happens never look back and regret it " dont cry over spilled milk " and be wiser from it?
good luck.
2007-01-28 15:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Peggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should have sex unless you are in a commited relationship..i say get to know the guy more..when you make your dessicion wether it be with this guy or another on make sure your 100% sure.
2007-01-28 15:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say wait though he may seem like the rightone
2007-01-28 15:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by big buddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe its best to wait a bit until you are more sure ---- it cant hurt if he is the "one" ---- and i love the name thats my daughter's as well and no she has 2 children so we are not related
2007-01-28 15:52:05 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋