should continue to fool around with him or should i leave him alone
he is 16 and i am 21
2007-01-28 15:35:03 · 19 answers · asked by creamy1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
age is just a number , i met my boyfriend at work and he's four years younger than me(he's 19 pervs) and i nearly passed on it because he was so young , yet this turned out to be the best relationship i've ever had . I've never had such a deep and loving connection , and i've never had so much fun just being with anyone . What you need to do is forget his age and concentrate on the joy he brings you , i know i do .
2007-01-28 15:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by sweet sammi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well... he's actually "jail bait," a term that is often associated with underage girls, but applies to underage men as well. You really could get in trouble for it, but unless his parents take action, it's doubtful that you will. Personally, I see nothing wrong with a boyfriend who is 5 years younger. I've had boyfriends that have been up to 12 years younger... but the thing is... they have always been over 18. So... I guess it depends on what you want out of the relationship. A 21 year old woman is usually far more mature than a 16 year old guy, but if you're not expecting maturity, and you're willing to take the risk of legal problems... hey... whatever turns you on!
2007-01-28 15:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by rainy_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with robbing the cradle but how much does a 16 boy know about pleasing a 21 women who needs to sow her wild oats. I guess it is okay only if the boys parents gave their consent to you so you can fool around with their son. One more question; what does your friends and family say about it. Honestly; it is wrong and there is a reason why you have to be 18 to sign your own name to simple documents and you have to be 21 to be able to buy alcohalic drinks.
2007-01-28 16:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by bigtool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Outside of the fact that it's illegal until he's 18, you should wonder why you, a 21-year-old adult woman, want to fool around with a 16-year-old boy.
2007-01-28 15:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough situation. In my opinion, you may want to leave him alone, at least until he gets of age. If it's love then the feelings will still be there. Two years is a long time to wait and see if it is love, but if it comes down to something happening you're the one that's going to get in trouble with the law. I'd back off and see what happens...if you are meant to be together then you will be.
2007-01-28 15:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lynesa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you say jailbait? Check out your local statitory rape laws and if you're breaking them, STOP. You may also want to think about getting some help, five years isn't that big of a gap, but 21 and 16 is alot different from 26 and 21.
2007-01-28 15:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Packin it up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age may not matter, depending on your invidual inclinations and aspirations> Wait for two or three more years before any major step in life.
2007-01-28 15:39:27 · answer #7 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him go because you can't talk to a 16 year old.Most 16 year olds only want sex anyway
2007-01-28 15:42:09 · answer #8 · answered by kim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you better leave him alone. Even if he was 1 year younger to you.
2007-01-28 15:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by sharon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better find out the age of consent in your state. You could be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor, or, worse, criminal sexual conduct.
2007-01-28 15:39:32 · answer #10 · answered by Rita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋