which one should be a priority?
2007-01-28 15:05:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Both - which is why it is good to learn how to use a planner/callendar now to map out worktime and playtime.
2007-01-28 15:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this a joke? come on it is not what is more important it is who is more important. Your GF / BF or you. Who do you think they would say should come first. If they love you and actually care about you then it is going to be you b/c they are not going anywhere and you need to take care of you first. You need to love you; If anything you are teaching others that you are able to love you and therefore they can also. They will learn from you that it is okay to take care of you and make time for friends. In a few yrs you will be out of college and they will still be by your side loving you and being proud of you. Or you could spend your time with them and flunk out of school, What would you tell them if it was the other way around? If they disappear on you then they are not all that great of friends/loved ones.
2007-01-28 23:20:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
School is always a priority, but dont become obsessive with it.
If something like homework usually takes you a couple hours or more to finish and you want to spend time with your special someone, I suggest studying together.
The two of you should get both your homework together that way you accomplish time spent together and finishing an important task.
But make sure that you two stay on track if you do happen to do this.
2007-01-28 23:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good idea to create a balance, don't cheat anyone out of time for you, if they really care about you they will support you in whatever time you need to get your homework done and be concerned about your success. Put aside a couple of hours on the weekend that you can give them your undevided attention. If they are still upset, maybe you need to let them know how important that your education is to you and that it will only be for four years or so, then you will be able to spend more time with them.....hopefully on vacation in Hawaii because you will be able to afford it after you get that great job with your college degree! Good luck and remember it's all about balance.
2007-01-28 23:12:11 · answer #4 · answered by trajan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the homework. Boyfriends come and go, but a college degree lasts forever.
2007-01-29 00:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well school is vary improtant for your future. and not all the time will your current boyfriend/ girlfriend. will b in the near future. so i'd say homework is more important. but then also if your girlfriend or boyfriend really cared about you. wouldn't you think they would want you to finnish your homework? or aleast understand that it must be done. so talk with them. and see if they really do care. and if they don't and well then....they ****** up.
2007-01-28 23:13:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ladii Syko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
college, or at least that is with me and my bf, he goes to college im still in high school but school is first for the both of us. college should be a priority, its what u need to be successfull
2007-01-28 23:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how much homework, if its just a little bit then ur bf/gf but if ur consistently not doing it and its really hurting ur grades then ur bf/gf should understand and let u spend more time studying
2007-01-28 23:11:02 · answer #8 · answered by coolpotatoeslive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll put it to you this way, I graduated college almost 18 years ago. I haven't seen a single guy I dated in college in just about as many years! You do the math.
2007-01-28 23:10:53 · answer #9 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get your homework done so you can move on wiht your life. your gf or bf will eventually stab you in the back. Think of yourself during this stage.
2007-01-28 23:14:39 · answer #10 · answered by plasma71104 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋