Ok so I've been screwing a guy for a year now, we have great sex almost daily but neither will admit that we want more. Recently he started being a little to nice to me and then I found out he started sleeping with two other women, It really bothers me and I don't want to have sex with him but then I do what are your suggestions. Please help i'm feeling a bit depressed.
2007-01-28 15:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by blondie79_dumb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe after all this time, you've developed sentimental feelings towards your buddy, and since you both haven't cleared things out, he still thinks it's just a sexual relationship and pretty much that. None the less, there should be some "exclusivity" between you both, so that nothing bad should happen (specially STD's).
I think your solution is to talk things straight with the guy, cause getting jealous with him in the kind of situation your both in, means that feelings have come into the game, and that might be something that perhaps he won't take as a good sign (considering the details of the two other girls he's having sex with).
Hope it does work out for you!
2007-01-28 15:19:20 · answer #1 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's just your f*** buddy, you shouldn't care that he's sleeping with other women. No strings attached, remember? If you find yourself caring, then it's probably time to move on. It sounds like you're ready for a real, committed relationship and, sorry to tell you this, but any guy who's been sleeping with you nearly every day for a year and has never made any effort to commit to you probably never will. There's no reason to hang on to this situation any more. Let him go and find a guy who's really into you.
2007-01-28 23:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Little Girl Blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, from what I understand, a $#@ buddy is nothing more than that. Just a %@#$ buddy.
I've never done the $%#@$ buddy thing, simply because I think having sex with someone is SUPPOSED to be special, not some booty call. My husband had a #$@# buddy before we started seeing each other, and she ended up being totally upset when he stopped having sex with her and started seeing me. My view: It's her own fault for pretending that she wanted nothing more than a screw. Sex is something that is supposed to be sacred. People would save a lot of heartache if they understood that.
2007-01-28 23:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Informed 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You answered your own question, he is ur f* buddy, there aren't supposed to be any strings attached. maybe you have feelings for him that you didn't realize?
2007-01-28 23:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by styler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were only using him for sex why would you care if 2 other women are using him too
2007-01-28 23:07:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you definetely want more, just tell him your feeling
2007-01-28 23:15:09 · answer #6 · answered by AY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What, help you make up more b u l l s h i t?
2007-01-28 23:11:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
depressed is not a solution, use your mind.....
see if he really loves you or??????
2007-01-28 23:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by Agent_Double 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
quit being his &^%% buddy maybe?
2007-01-28 23:09:12 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let me fill the empty hole in you!!!!
2007-01-29 01:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋