I put him on dontdatehimgirl.com pic and all and now I wonder if I should have. He di me dirty and everytime I hear that scum he's with voice, I get more enraged that he left me for nasty controlling trash. Although I was done a huge favor in the long run by finally seeing that he is a sorry MF Sometimes I still feel rage and hurt. We do Have a kid together. what do you think?
2007-01-28 14:52:59 · 28 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He callsne every week talking crap about how he hates her and she lied about being pregnant and he misses meand I don't buy it. I am not vidictive but the just pissed me off when I heard her yelling athim to get off her phone when hecalled totalk to our son. He also don't pay child support now what do you think?
2007-01-28 15:07:08 · update #1
And he's been in prison on drug charges in and out for 8 years
2007-01-28 15:15:37 · update #2
well first you have a right to mad he cheated on you ... but by putting him out on a website... all you did was let him know he's brought you down.. so basicly your giving him leverage when you should be fronting the I don't give a damn about you anymore.. I hope that make sense.. I know it hurts girl.. I have been there .. with the kids and all but the only way to make it better is to first pretend to him he's not getting to you and your not going to let him and eventually your heart will follow and you'll be over it.. it might take a while but hold your head up high and keep walking..
2007-01-28 14:58:01 · answer #1 · answered by Mikentab R 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You did what you did out of anger not concern for other women but if it made you feel a little better and it didn't directly hurt anybody, it's fine. Don't worry. Stop putting so much energy into revenge and hating this new girl. Now she's putting up with his trash. You're set free fully knowing who he is and what's he's worth. He did you a favor. Now move on and don't give him the satisfaction of knowing you're still thinking of him. Allow him to see his child and be respectful for the child's sake but it keep it all about parenting nothing special.
2007-01-28 22:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is natural to feel upset, but seeking revenge? Girl, let him make it! You will be happier when you do. Just think....right now while you're stressin' over the situation, "sorry MF" has moved on & is not thinking about you the way you're thinking about him. You are putting too much energy into this. Life is too short for bullsh*t. Do right by your child & move on the best way you can. Chalk it up as a lesson learned.
2007-01-28 23:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Mirch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I certainly understand how you must feel, especially with a child fathered by him, however, it wasn't the girl who hurt you , but him. Trashing her really doesn't help when he is the one who hurt you.
As far as the Internet cheaters site, I guess it wouldn't be my choice. I don't see much sense in hitting back, but them I'm not you. In my opinion, the best way to jab back at him, if that is something you just must do, is to move on, be sure he supports your child and have a better life than you would have had with him.
The best way to move on is just to do it rather than keeping yourself in a wounded state by seeking revenge. I do think you will grow to move past this type of thinking, and hope that you do, for the sake of your little one.
2007-01-28 23:03:30 · answer #4 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you can, remove the photo and info about your ex from the site. I feel your pain. There are some real dogs out there...my ex is, too. Anger is a part of getting over it all. You want your ex around to support your child and be a father figure, no? This doesn't help things if he finds out about the pic/info. Remove it...make a copy of it and burn it.
2007-01-28 22:58:24 · answer #5 · answered by What, what, what?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should've put him on blast like that..it is rather funny though...lol. But yea, don't stoop to his level. I know you're upset and angry but he'll get what's coming to him soon enough. Just do what you need to do for the child you all have together. Yall need to at least come to an understanding since there's a child involved though. Just give yourself time..you'll be ok.
2007-01-28 22:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What always amazed me about dontdatehimgirl.com is how women like you ended up dating guys like that in the first place!!
You must have known he was an asshole when you met him (it's hard for assholes to hide their obnoxious personalities) but you dated him, got in a relationship with him, had a kid with him and NOW you complain about what a jerk he is!!!!
Wouldn't it have been easier to reject him when he first approached you? You would have saved yourself (and the poor unfortunate child who's a product of this doomed relationship) a lifetime of trouble!!
2007-01-28 22:58:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem with that is you have a child together and you need to get along for the child's sake why would you put your child's father down and do you know what slander is?
2007-01-28 23:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen, I was recently cheated on for the first time in my life. Cheaters are not worth it from the minute they start cheating. Good for you for doing that. Sure you have a kid, but that was out of love. There is no more love now. Do what you can to get him out of your life but give him his share of hell, too.
2007-01-28 22:57:49 · answer #9 · answered by JuicyPiink 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-28 23:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Skinz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋