Was it your decision or the other persons? How did you feel about it afterwards?
2007-01-28 14:48:12 · 19 answers · asked by hot single mom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it has happened a few times
2007-01-28 14:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have had a one nite stand. It was actually mutual. He was a good friend of mine and he is married and he was sexy as hell so I was curious so we talked about it and my curiousity became reality and it was not all that I thought it would be , but we are still friends and we agreed that we would never try it again. The reason why I said it wasn't all that is because we just did it and there was no four play , no kissing no nothing and it was quite boring but I still care about him and we will not do that again. There is nothing wrong with getting your groove on just be careful and make responsible choices and don't get caught up! Have fun and live life to the fullest if you are not looking for a committed relationship or a husband or if you have already been through that and just want to get loose everybody deserves!
2007-01-28 23:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by doodie315 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,... it was a mutual decision. We actually had seen eachother around a few times, but we just had never introduced ourselves or talked. We then bumped into eachother at a club and started talking, which led to drinks, which led to a couple quick kisses, and then the next moring waking up together.
It went back to normal from then on because we just did it for the experience. Neither of us was really interested in a relationship with the other and it was agreed that it would stop there. I have to say, safety is the #1 thing with this. Be careful going home with strangers, either your place or theres. Really, you should never take a stranger to your place or you'll have a new stalker if things go wrong, but always, always, always use protection!!!!
Be safe!
2007-01-28 22:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by Justin W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've had more then one......it has to be a mutual decision. There were times I went out to the bar just looking for a one night stand, and there were times I just happened to meet a guy who I ended up going home with. But we had to have the conversation before having sex that this was just a one night stand.....although sometimes the next morning they would ask for my number.....and sometimes I would leave mine and hope they would call again
2007-01-28 23:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had many a one night stands in my time and I believe the feeling was mutual. After wards, it depended on how the other person treated me. If it was with respect..I didn't feel to bad but if they just left without saying good-bye....then it made me feel pretty low of myself. As I look back on my life now, I wish I would have never done it but I think I was searching for something that you couldn't get in a one night stand and I finally found it in the love of my husband.
2007-01-28 22:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A one night stand has several Pros's and Con's Some of the Pros's are of course sexual plesure, fun and the thrill of doing it.
The Con's are Regret, feeling like a SL%$T, Possable STD's.
Over all the best thing to do is follow your heart and stay on the right path. Hope this helps
2007-01-28 23:02:53 · answer #6 · answered by dheck03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a man, my persceptive may be different. But yes I have had some one night stands, but there was always protection in place. I had one experience that was bad when the woman thought if she gave me sex up front, it meant I would want to be with her always. I think she got hurt, but I never lied to her or told her it would lead anywhere else. So be careful and make sure your motives are clear. it is better to avoid these situations, but they can happen.
2007-01-28 22:56:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup had one once. It just happened. Except I knew the guy, and that made it really awkward, like we wanted to talk about what happened, but didn't. Now we rarely talk, because we both knew we shouldn't have done that. It was a decision made based on a lack of judgment (drinking)! I won't do it again.
2007-01-28 22:54:51 · answer #8 · answered by lil' miss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did once..it was a mutual decision and I felt nothing about it afterwards.
2007-01-28 23:00:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most folks have experienced at least one of those and I'm no exception......I was quite disappointed in myself afterwards. Not a good feeling at all.
2007-01-28 23:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Janet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋