I dont wanna think about falling in love and stuff, and its really distracting. I wanna just focus on what's in front of me. What should i do to quit day dreamin bout luv and the perfect guy or just having a bf.
2007-01-28 14:46:38 · 19 answers · asked by Nikki 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay involved with your friends. Stay involved with your life. If you are in school, concentrate on your classes. Get involved in activities that will challenge you and spark some excitement in your life.
2007-01-28 14:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who says you have to fall in love if you have a boyfriend. I'm sure you can have a realtionship and still focus on whats in front of you.
IF you feel you are unable to balance the two then just work or whatever it is you are focusing on. If you find yourself day dreaming about luv then hit yourself. After you hit yourself a few times then you will stop the daydreaming.
2007-01-28 22:53:09 · answer #2 · answered by plasma71104 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well boyfriends are a lot of work so you might want to try an imaginary one for awhile. Just pick a guy who is a total stranger but that you see almost every day. Imagine having a relationship with him in your free dreamy time and spend the rest of the time focussed on yourself. It's a good past time until you have the time and energy to really pursue a good relationship.
It sounds kind of psycho but my friends and I did it all the time when we were younger. We are all respectable married women now!
2007-01-28 22:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by psycho-cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is not a fantasy like the movies are. Focus on something else, love is not all it's cracked up to be and certainly nothing to rush into.
2007-01-28 22:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't quit daydreaming i do it all the time but all you have to do is find a friend who will go shopping, to the movies or something to kind of keep your mind off but don't stop completely because even people in relationships dream about other people they could've had
2007-01-28 22:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Manda d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find something you really enjoy and focus all your time, energy, and effort on that thing. You can't think about love if you're spending all your time focusing on the other thing.
2007-01-28 22:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by Odvok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all want and need love, but in order to love, you first have to love yourself. Loving yourself requires that you give yourself the things that you deserve, and one of them is time. Time to follow your dreams, reaching your goals in life. Making life works for you.
Then, only after then, you should love another because you have so much love inside of you to give.
2007-01-28 22:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lana817 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobbie, join a sports club, get out and get your mind off htat stuff
2007-01-28 22:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Pink Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem, whether it be tv or my brother and soon to be sister, or even my friends. just hang out with some friends, call them, study, read a book, anything to keep your mind off.
2007-01-28 22:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by simplicity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am in the same situation...would like to see the answers. You are not the only one :)
2007-01-28 22:52:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋