How do I get a b/f? I don't want any "Ask the guy you like out" cause that source works like this. [.......] Exactly! NOTHING! I want one but I can't get one. I want company from someone I can hug/kiss/hold hands with but i can't because NO guy would go out with me!
So any tips on how to get one? And like i said no "WHy don't you ask out the guy you like?" Cause that NEVER works!
2007-01-28 14:40:56 · 8 answers · asked by Waiting 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Going out and meeting people will be the way to meet more guys. That will increase your chances. Have fun with your life. Do things you enjoy. You will make more friends and those things will come naturally with them.
2007-01-28 14:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to tell you this and I don't mean to be rude, ok? STOP trying sooooo hard dear! Men can smell desperation and you sound desperate alright. Taking the initiative does not work all the time, sit back. I always get the best compliments when I go out with no makeup and in sweats because I have confidence in myself, something you need to get. Men are attracted to confidence and women who are happy and energetic; you are not happy and it probably shows. I know the feeling of wanting someone to share life with I do, I was single for about 5 years without a serious relationship and you know what, I enjoyed it! Embrace being single and when you do that and get yourself situated, men will see what a catch you are. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and we are so happy but it takes awhile to get there sometimes. And you never know when it will happen: we met the day after my mom's funeral last year, and trust me I was not looking for this at that time, but I got a great man and a healthy relationship. Stop, breathe, relax and it will happen, promise!
2007-02-04 23:24:09 · answer #2 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i so know how you feel. however, if guys can't see what a great girl you are and how lucky they would be to have you, then its their loss. i know how badly you want a guy to care for you and do all of the sweet things for you, but sometimes it just doesn't work out. i understand not wanting to ask a guy out. its very intimidating, i did that once and luckily he said yes, but i would never do it again. just talk to guys and flirt with them and find stuff you two have in common. then, hopefully he'll figure out how great of a person you are.
2007-02-05 19:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what guys want in a gurl...so be IT!!!
*good looks -- if u r better looking and better dressed than other gurs!!! prettiest IS THE BEST!!!
*nice -- even if u rn't very attracted to the person at first, just be nice and open
*get msn, yahoo, and any type of messenger and give out messengers(people won't take it as weird -- especially guys who r attracted to u(once u're really hott!!!)
*be outgoing, friendly, honest, and urself...!!!
try and be friends AND remember that if u have a good reputation at school THAT reallyyyyy helps too so...
good luck;D
xao!:D
2007-01-28 22:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHy don't you ask out the guy you like
2007-01-28 22:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask anyone out...just go to partys and have some "Fun"
2007-01-28 22:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and have fun. make sure people know your available. good luck
2007-01-28 22:54:28 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take it easy.it doesnot mean you want it then you can get it.LOVE TAKES TIME
2007-02-05 22:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by kelen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋