My best friend is going out with the girl i love. but shes my best friend and he is too. they both know how i feel. she says she thinks of me as just a friend. but i love her and i cant get over her.......
2007-01-28 14:33:11 · 7 answers · asked by randomguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to be the bigger person and move on. I know its hard and you probably feel as though why do you have to end up on the short end, but there are so many people in this world if you give it a chance. The reality is that they are together. If it was meant to be, she would be working things out with you. That's the problem with guy/girl relationships, it always leads to feelings. Try to move on and you will see the world is full of new, exciting people to meet. You just have to take that first step.
2007-01-28 15:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep thinking that you can't get over her then you will never get over her. NO one can help you but you. You will only ruin the friendship that you have with them if you insist on your feelings. I am sure you will still find another woman that is meant for you. We don't always get what we want in life and sometimes things happen because they are the best for us. Move on and be happy for them. There are a lot of fish in the ocean.
2007-01-28 22:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by brainyluscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this girl an ex girlfriend or someone you want to date? either way though... if shes an ex then you shouldnt expect your friends not to follow their hearts because youve had your chance and it didnt work out... it sucks but the mature thing to do would be to accept that theyre happy and that things didnt work out for you and move on with your life. things will calm down emotionally. try not to be possessive or youll alienate them... do they still want to be friends with you? If you expect your friends to base their lives on your feelings or disaprovals maybe you should ask yourself why the world should revolve around you... If you havent dated her before then the same thing kind of applies... that things didnt go the way you wanted them to is no reason for others to hang up their feelings to pacify you... sometimes life just doesnt go our way and we cant expect everyone to sacrifice their needs/feelings/and desires to make us feel better.
2007-01-28 23:01:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to move on and get over it. No matter how much it hurts to. Support your friend no matter how you feel.
2007-01-28 22:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard but get over her, i think goin from friends to lovers is hard becuase theres not much new territory to go over to keep her interested seeing as shes ur friend
2007-01-28 22:37:56 · answer #5 · answered by dbmistry88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it hurts, but love is not jelous and it is patient. if you love her, you'll understand how she feels, and you'll handle the situation fine. its ok buddy, keep truckin along
2007-01-28 22:39:54 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you say "THREESOME"?
2007-01-28 22:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by lipstick_insurgent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋