Would you still love your child?

Question

When he/she grew up you realized that they were homosexual

Answer 1

I would love my son no matter what he did. True love never EVER ends. I may be dissapointed and disaprove of some things he does, but I will never stop loving him

Answer 2

As a parent i would consider the things i did or did not do. I would want to undersatnd that homosexuality, as well as hetrosexuality is constructed.
The Formula For Constructing A Homosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward Homosexuality Plus That First Homosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Homosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Homosexual Experiences Multiplied By More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Homosexual.

The Formula For constructing A Hetrosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way: A Predisposition
Toward hetrosexuality Plus That First Hetrosexual Experience
Multiplied By Pleasurable and Positive Hetrosexual Thoughts
To Which Is Added More Hetrosexual Experiences Multiplied By
More Pleasurable Thoughts Constructs A Hetrosexual.

I would want to be aware that so many things could be that influence that was the predisposition to my child becoming homosexual. I would not want to at first think the worst, that my child had been molested by some one of the same gender while the child was young. If that was the case i would understand that as a child the child may not have understood that it was wrong, and it was innoscent to have found the acts eventually pleasurable. I would not have wanted to just forgot all about this, never mention it again and not get my child propper counseling, expecting this to never influence my child, even if he forgets the time and understand that the influence could remain long after my child had forgotten the situation.
I would want to understand more about gender nonconformity. know it is a seperate issue than homosexuality. If my child had shown characteristics that seemed to belong to the opposite gender, I would not panice, I would not think of my child as possably turning out to be gay. I would get early diagnoise and treatment for my child, because i would understand that a gender nonconformity may be born in some children due to hormonal influences, but also understand some children learn characteristics that cause them to form a gender nonconformity. I would be aware that it is said 1 out of every 4 children born may have a gender nonconformity, either born or learned, I would want to understand whicth it possably could be. I would know that even though science is saying that gender nonconformity appears to be a predisposition to forming homosexuality, I would know it is a seperate issue, and some children outgrow their gender nonconformity, but I would realize it is important to be treated and not ignored. i would understand that not all children with a gender nonconformity do construct homosexuality.
I would also know that any child could be predispoesd to constructing homosexuality, not every child that does construct homosexuality will have a gender nonconformity.
I would realize that innoscent name calling can predispose a child to construct homosexuality. I would realize many things could cause a predisposition to hoomosexuality and earliest prevention or treatment of the child would be better. I would therefor want my child to talk to me about these issues. i would not want to be a parent always mocking homosexuality, degrading it, stoning it, I would not even want the child to be afraid to tell me because it thinks God would not love the child. I would want to be open and loving and showing concern at the same time.

Answer 3

The love a parent has for a child is supposed to be love like that of our Creator: Unconditional. There is nothing a child should ever say or do that would cause you to not love him or her. And a child growing up to realize their homosexual could be one of two things. a) a phase or a bit of curiosity, or b) something both the parents and the child have been in denial of for awhile. At all costs, whether the parent agrees on what the child is doing or not, the parent needs to be helpful and supportive.

Answer 4

absolutely. We talk about my son growing up to be gay and he's 15 months old. (he has alot of funny quirks that in an adult would be commonly found in a homosexual). Why does that matter? That doesnt take back the years of scraped up knees and late night fevers or any other time your baby needed you (baby at any age) and you prayed to god (or whatever higher power) that they be ok. It may not be the path that you had picked out when you first saw those two blue lines on that home pregnacy test years ago but when youthink about it I'm sure your delivery probably didnt go as planned either. Its still your baby (baby at any age.) and they still need their parent.

Answer 5

I am a Christian and believe that homosexuality is a choice. I also believe it is wrong. But I do not hate homosexuals and I would continue to love my child if they announced to me that they were homosexual. But I would also let them know I could not accept it as a legitimate lifestyle and I certainly would not want to condone it in any way by allowing their partner to come to family functions. I would tell my child not to bring it up in our conversations. But even if my child threw it in my face every time I saw them or would flaunt it whenever I was around them, I still would not hate them. I would start praying for them every day. I would ask God to forgive them and ask God to change them. But NEVER EVER stop loving them. Judgment of their sins will be up to God.

Answer 6

Absolutely.Yes. Who my schild chooses to love is his/her business.I jsut hope the person is someone i can get along with,and becomes part of the family regardless of gender.Love for your children is supposed to be unconditional,and I think we are seeing more of that in this generation.There doesn't seem to be as much 'don't darken my doorstep again if you do this or that or refuse to etc" But not everyone is relaxed about things and I hope this is not the case ofr you if you have soemthing to tell your parents. It's a good question,be interesting to reas all the answers.I do think you'll be happily surprised at the result.

Answer 7

Why would you stop loving your child just because they are a homosexual? They are still the same person inside; and still your flesh and blood! One of my kids could grow up to be a serial killer and I would still love them! A parent hates what their child does; but will always love their child! A parents love is supposed to be UNCONDITIONAL and ETERNAL!

Answer 8

Yes I would still love them. Being homosexual does not change the fact that they are still your child. Love should be unconditional. You should still love your child no matter what they do in life.

Answer 9

I would love my child no matter what they did. If my child was a homosexual, a criminal, anything, I would love him or her regardless. Something I had a part in making and brought to life is something to stop loving under any given situation.

Answer 10

of course i would love them you know having a homosexual child doesnt mean that they are infected with any disease or something like that all they need is to feel that you as a parent wont reject them just like everyone else does they dont want to expect that from somebody that is supposed to support them no matter what dont make them feel rejected they are your kid and there is nothing wrong with having a different sexual preference.

Answer 11

I'd like to think that I would speak for all parents when I say, no matter what, a parents love for a child has no boundries, but in saying that, it dosent mean that a parent is exempt from being hurt, and some parents/people, display this hurt in ways that we are not always proud of, speaking as a parent I' d like to think I would be understanding, accepting and as loving as I could possibly be for my son or daughter, as ultimatly, it it their right to be happy, and my duty to support that.