OK theres this guy that I've REALLY liked for about a year or two now! but he's a senior and this is his last year and.... I have nvr really talked to him but he seems really great! and im not the kind of grl that just goes up to someone and just starts talking to him. Im really shy!!!!! I hate being shy but thats just the way I am! WHAT DO I DO!???
2007-01-28 14:23:26 · 17 answers · asked by Lilly 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he's really worth it, maybe you should consider coming out of your shell. Take a chance, you never know? You dont want to have any regrets...The best way to get noticed is confidence. Also try to get yourself noticed, nothing too crazy, but maybe start talking to one of his friends...
2007-01-28 14:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Jennifer W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is a senior, you better get busy! Maybe you could start off by saying hello to him and if that doesn't work, wear a short catholic school girl outfit and fix yourself up really hot and pretty. I'm sure that will work! Seriously, start off by saying hello and hopefully both of you will start talking. If you are really that shy, maybe a friend can help you out with some confidence. Most guys like a little shyness but we like females to go for what they want! Good luck!
2007-01-28 22:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so stupid and go talk to him. Life is to short to live with asinine things like being shy, get over it. If you don't you will regret this for the rest of your life. You will wind up living in a trailer park and having ten kids who are all on drugs or wanted by the law. Your husband who will be a bum and is attracted to you because you were shy and therefore you had to marry because you were scared to talk to the guy you really wanted. By the way, he married your best friend because she overcame her shyness.
2007-01-28 22:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be stuck. What you can do is slip a note in his locker for valentine's day. Tell him about the huge crush you had on him for the past two years. Later, when you see him, smile and hope he's interested. Who knows maybe you guys will end up going to prom together. Good Luck!
2007-01-28 22:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Papa Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so far, none of this advice sounds that great. but in my oppinion, dont do anything out of the ordinary. find out where his locker is, and slip a note in his locker explaining the situation, and make it all cute, and in the note tell him to meet you somewhere after school. Make sure the note doesnt sound all weird, and ask a friend whos had relationship experience to revise it. then slip it in, and meet him in the spot after school. and hopefully he'll make take it from there.
good luck!
2007-01-28 22:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more outgoing. Strike up a conversation. Be selfconfident a guy loves that on a girl.
2007-01-28 22:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself! Walk up casually and be calm and just say "Hi! My name's ___ and I just wanted to come over and say hi." Just let things go with the flow and don't ever ever ever lose your cool. Being yourself (again, repeated) is always the best thing you can do.
2007-01-28 22:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by devilishangelgirl10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about you start being secure of yourself and what the **** ask him out. plus if you mess up its his last year anyways you shoul really start flirting with him or you will stay with the what if. i remeber being like you and then the person left and there bye bye the end flirt with him girl.pop outof your shell
2007-01-28 22:28:52 · answer #8 · answered by PP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by having confidence so just go up nd talk thats the only way dont be passive!
2007-01-28 22:26:29 · answer #9 · answered by blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slip a naked photo of yourself into the slots of his locker. Write on it, " All this could be yours." If that doesn't work, stalk him. Guys love that.
2007-01-28 22:26:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋