My guy made a comment about my body and needing to be in better shape but also told me it doesn't really matter to him. BUT at the same time he doesn't talk positively about larger women and makes comments about Kirsty Ally and Tyra Banks being "fat". Would you believe it really doesn't matter to him??
2007-01-28 14:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by DebChick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It matters to him. Instead of losing weight or toning up, lose him. If it was a concern of his, he could have voiced it much better...
2007-01-28 14:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it matters to him or he would never had made the comment to begin with. You really need to think about where your relationship is going with this guy...if he is judging your appearance now, he will never stop and will only get worse. I have seen this one before...one of my friends actually hides when she eats one single piece of candy because of the nasty little comments that "don't mean anything" that he throws at her if she even looks at anything with a calorie in it!
2007-01-28 22:23:21 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send the heartless bastard down the road and find someone who will love no matter how big you get.
2007-01-28 22:48:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't believe it. And as your boyfriend he should be there to make you feel better about yourself, not worse! Talk to him about the way you're feeling, and remember: if you're healthy and happy, you are exactly where you need to be.
2007-01-28 22:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Julie K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh it matters men want women looking good. Why do you think older men go after young girls?
2007-01-28 22:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by smurf_punky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah he's lying it does matter to him
2007-01-28 22:18:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋