I made a new male friend a few weeks ago. We've done stuff personally together. We have some things alike and different. He's a nice guy. I met him at a smal lget-together my friend had. After awhile I had a feeling he liked me. He had made nice gestures, but nothing nastily sexual. As I guessed, he asked me out. Well, he is a few years oder than me on one account wonder. I've haven't known him super long. I'm still getting over the fact I lost my virginity to a fool and recently losing a close friend. As I said I think he's nice and I'm reaquented and growing closer with a female friend I had in middle school that is really close with him. Should I maybe wait and see what happens? Should I just say forget it and stick as friends? My last real relationship was 7 monthes ago and his was 2 years. I don't know idf that means anything. What do you think?
2007-01-28 14:11:32 · 7 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should follow your heart...honestly i would go ahead and say yes to a date...i would make sure he knew wut was going on though and make sure he knows theres no guarantee of a committed relationship
2007-01-28 14:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by AJanae W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should go into a relationship this fast, if you do you're liable to just be taking him on because you want and need the affection you get when you're with another guy. It seems that 7 months is probably an alright time to go into another relationship, but if you still feel the hurt on think about the last relationship you had then your heart is telling you that you just aren't ready for another yet and to wait awhile longer. If he really loves you then he can wait until you're ready.
2007-01-28 14:15:51 · answer #2 · answered by winds_of_justice 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait and see where the friendship goes first. sounds like you have alot of other things you are trying to work out within yourself. Adding more to your plate my cause even more issues for you just take your time. Its better to wait and get to know him, than end up in the situation like with the other fool. You need to have self respect before anyone can respect you, sexually or not.
2007-01-28 14:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by tinydancer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's been showing you that he loves you by little things he does then obviously he loves you. And Im sure you don't want to break his heart by leaving him, you should just stay with him for a little while longer to see were the relationship take you both.
2007-01-28 14:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you are open and honest with him you wont mess things up with him or you female friend. most people out their are very understanding, you just tel him what you are going through and that you think he is nice but this just isnt the time. it will all work out and if it doesnt then you really didnt need him around anyway.
2007-01-28 14:18:01 · answer #5 · answered by D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow ..... and at your own speed. You may let a good thing go .... and it's hard to find a good thing. But take the relationship as far as you want to ..... but if you don't want a relationship now ..... be cordial, but be honest.
2007-01-28 14:17:56 · answer #6 · answered by burlingtony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give the relationship a shot you have nothing to lose if it doesn't work out then its ok
2007-01-28 14:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋