I startd cutting in 8th grade, im a junior in highskool now. cutting is ruining my life. i told my boyfriend and he said we need a break until i can change. i love this guy with all my heart and i dont want to cut anymore but i always have the urge to do it. can some one please help me. i dont want to lose my man because of this and i dont want to cut anymore.......
2007-01-28 13:37:50 · 15 answers · asked by delete me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Better stop cuttin cutter.
2007-01-28 13:43:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've never cut before but I know people that do and whenever I get under a lot of stress I start thinking about it. You got to do something that isn't harmful and will substitute for that feeling you want. Try working out really, really hard or gripping ice cubes or snapping a rubber band on your wrist. There are a lot of books out there that can help (but some contain triggering material so be careful which ones you pick). The bottom line is you have to find a better way to deal with stress, pain, and anxiety. Talking to the RIGHT person will really help. Maybe you should consider a therapist? Just don't be embarrassed and don't give up hope. A lot of people out there do it, and if you want to get over it you can get over it. Best of luck to you...
2007-01-28 13:52:07 · answer #2 · answered by claire5star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't kill yourself. I know what I'm saying is pretty cliche, but I've been feeling the same way and I promise ending your life is not the solution. It will NOT end the pain, it will only make it worse. You were put on this earth for a reason and ending your life at such a young age is going against everyone in your life! Think about it, there ARE people in this world that love you, and if you ended your life just imagine how they would feel. Think about your mother, father, siblings, friends, and even the people that you have yet to meet...people love you...you have a purpose. Please go see a therapist if you feel this way, they really do help. It does get better. :) Stay strong <3
2016-03-29 07:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, get rid of all your "tools". Be sure that when you throw them away, there is no possibility you will be able to fish them out of the trashcan again.
Second, start to occupy yourself more with meaningful things. Try out for a sports team at school, or join a few clubs you feel are pretty interesting.
Third, just look at the positive side of life. Cutting yourself isn't going to fix any of your problems. In this case (and in many others), it just made your life worst, according to the situation with your boyfriend.
Fourth, talk to your boyfriend after a while when you feel that you are alright now and you have stopped cutting yourself for good. Ask him to give you a second chance. He probably will.
2007-01-28 13:46:35 · answer #4 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking for help - but you're asking for help in the wrong place. In a public forum where people can say anything, you probably won't get very serious answers.
Get some professional help if anything. Get a psychiatrist. And the thing about your boyfriend, just put him out of your mind - put ANY romantic relationship out of your mind until you're better. You don't want any distractions that could make you steer away from the recovery process.
2007-01-28 13:42:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to see a doctor about this, it is a serious thing. About your man...if he really loved you he would be by your side at a time like this, he would help you get help instead of running away from you. But, at a time like this, he is the last person you should be worrying about, you are your number 1 priority right now. Talk to someone...you need to get over this, fast!
Good luck sweetie
2007-01-28 13:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by ☼ Latina Loca loves Yayo ☼ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please go seek some professional help. The only other thing you can do is to occupy your mind in some type of activity. Join a sport, even if you are not good at any sports just play for the hell of it. You will learn to be active and healthy and it might be good for your self esteem. If you are the creative type then put your attention into creating something.
2007-01-28 13:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Inamra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u alredi helped yourself.u no your man is morre important so, just quit.iv'e gone there before, actually so i no what ur going through.when u feel the urge walk away, think about something else, count to 10, and think about the consequences.TAKE MY WORD FOR IT, PLZ STOP! PLZ STOP! PLZ STOP! ur putting so manny ppl in pain.ur family,ur friends, ur bf, and urself.do urself a favor and stop.its unhealthy, it reli is.i don't want u to got through what i did, life is 2 short to be wasted on that bull(thats what i think of it).life just past right by me when i did it.i realized that i had to stop, i hope u do 2.best of luck to u, stay strong grl.
2007-01-28 13:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by CurioslyPerfect 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
EMO, OK you no what I have friends who cut just like you and I hate to see it. It is so sad to see that happen to them I want to help them but I just don't know how. So my advise to you is go get some counseling please It will be better for everyone when you stop. Good Luck.
2007-01-28 13:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by 2jackweedm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to be a cutter as well... now I'm anorexic... I'm married and struggling with cutting, not eating, and bipolar disorder.
try to invest you time into yourself, do little things for him like your hair, nails, makeup, etc.. and make sure to see someone about that. talk to him about it, and ask if he can help you.
2007-01-28 13:49:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please see a therapist, or better yet, a psychologist or psychiatrist. I'm very serious about this.
Also, if your boyfriend really cares about you, he will support you in your endeavor. However, he may not know how to handle it. Sit down and talk to him about it. It should make your transition easier.
2007-01-28 13:46:43 · answer #11 · answered by Licia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋