2007-01-28 13:37:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
pray. that the sould of the love you lost be peaceful and happy. pray that you would get over soon. remembering all those happy times that you had together for a while, but bear in mind that you have to move on. you can mourn for a year, but life should go on for you. you are still alive, you can remember him/her but you have to have a life too.
2007-01-28 14:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by jocjac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am SO sorry that you are in this pain, it can be VERY deep and my heart goes out to you. Time my dear. Do NOT try to squelch the memories, but do not be maudlin and make it a point to go to all the places or listen to the favorite songs, etc. Reach out to friends and do things together, ASK for what you need. Ask if it is okay to talk about your lost love, and then reminisce, as it is quite okay and appropriate. But ALSO travel, ad go places where you did NOT go with your lost love. Life is to be lived forward. Talk when it feels right to do so...right TO your lost love, laugh and recollect, but go ON. There is no doubt that a deep love would want that for you. Trust that this is so, and totally be grateful and express that gratitude for the time and love you shared.
You are never alone! All the Best!
2007-01-28 13:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by mountain woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but u will never forget and "get over the person" . However, each day will be hard and u will cry when u remebering certain events but instead of crying with time and patients you will laugh and hold those rmemories and time soo close to your heart.
Never forget just be patient --> a broken heart can mend somewhat but will always feel the ache when it was broken.
Good luck
2007-01-28 13:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by emalie_rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The loss of a loved one is not something you get over. It's something you learn to live with. So first, don't try to get over it.
How to learn to live with it? It will take time. It will get a little easier and a little easier. Remember that it is okay to take a break from thinking about it. Give yourself permission to do that. You're only human. Working through your emotions is good, but so is abiding by your limits. Also give yourself permission to laugh if you feel like laughing. That will help as well.
Your loved one would very probably want you to laugh and to abide by your limits.
You should also keep doing your normal routine if you are able to. This is usually helpful. Doing so helps to maintain a sense of stability in life and the things in your routine help to provide some distraction -- and again, it's okay to allow yourself some distraction.
You're only human. :) Take it a day at a time. Baby steps are a good thing.
Best of luck to you -- I hope this helps!
2007-01-28 13:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out see the world, meet with friends, find a hobby, remember the good times and celebrate life, it might seem ironic, but life goes on and so should you. Maybe it will be ok tomorrow maybe it will take longer, but you'll get there and you'll be able to look back and be happy and grateful that the person that you are today in part was formed by those moments that you lived in your past.
2007-01-28 13:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by wanna_help_u 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow, the previous love is the hardest to get over.....you actually not in any respect get over the previous love.........If it made you unhappy sufficient/mad sufficient to chop up with him over the challenge, than you made the right decision. at the same time as you experience undesirable in the present day, it will be maximum acceptable on your happiness contained in the destiny. by technique of merely that actuality that he made (without some thing else), it shows that he really has no appreciate for you by any ability, and also you deserve someone who will undergo his soul to you, inspite of your transformations, and someone who will appreciate and love you both as a lot as you want him. that is really basic to wish to be with him, and so demanding to enable bypass, yet you should stay agency on your decision with staying except for him.....he will not in any respect change that concept no count number what he says via the undeniable fact that is a center cost of his, and center values are those that are almost no longer conceivable to ever change. truly, you'll continuously play second base to each and every thing else, and also you seriously is not at liberty. i do no longer recognize you, yet i ask you to vow me this: promise me that you'll search for that inner power which i experience you've and not in any respect ever bypass decrease back to him lower back, even with if he begs you....Please promise me this!
2016-12-03 04:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals everything. Being able to forget is one of God's blessings to mankind, by which passing thoughts and transitory sensory perceptions can be wiped away.... I'm talking about the pain not the loved one.
2007-01-28 13:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by miss tique 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Time. Remember the times you had together - think of how that person helped you grow - and recognize that grief is natural and will finish when you are ready for it to finish.
2007-01-28 13:40:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just move on. accept the fact that he/she is gone. somenday those wounds will heal. go out with your friends or have more time to your family. those people are the one who will help you.... and pray. God has more plans to you. cheer up!
2007-01-28 13:44:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive said this b4...u never truly get over someone..i know how u feel it takes me LOOONNG time to get over someone u just have to move on and things will get better ;) good luck hun
2007-01-28 13:45:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋