Okay I've known my boyfriend for years and he' been going to parties ever since I've known him. Now we go out he still goes to partied and dances I mean really dances with girls. My friends say i should be mad...Should I?
2007-01-28 13:34:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way. Only if he isn't giving you the loving that you need. Let him flirt a bit. It's good for you both.
2007-01-28 13:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by edward_the_l0ngshanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you secure in yourself and your relationship? If by dancing you mean inappropraite touching and grinding other women on the dance floor. Then I would let him know you do not approve. Don't go ranting and raving like a jealous girlfreind, but with respect let him know you disapprove. If he does it again in front of you, then I would question his respect for your feelings and I would let him know you are going to reevalute your relationship with him based on HIS behavior and the disregard for your feelings. Always conduct yourself as a lady and keep your emotions under control when dealing with a man, regardless of how HE behaves.
2007-01-28 13:46:37 · answer #2 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have all rights to be mad because he's your man and he should only be dancing with you. And if he really loves you like he says then he's lying and he know that by him dancin up on other girls is wrong but he continues to do it. Talk to him about it girl and tell him how you feel.
2007-01-28 13:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy n you should b mad... But heres a trick you can try. If you don't go to the parties with him ask him can you go. If he saids ok then he probably is doing crazy stuff. If he saids know then well u know
2007-01-28 13:38:52 · answer #4 · answered by luis4for43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A big YES! Hell's Yeah. If you two are serious in your relationship, he should consider your well being. The emotional roller coaster you're going through is too much stress so het him know about it.
2007-01-28 13:41:57 · answer #5 · answered by W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Grow up, there are other guys all over the place if it bothers you that much. Find a new boyfriend that will let you tie him on a leash and jump at your every demand.
2007-01-28 13:40:40 · answer #6 · answered by El Tigre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be angry? What you see is what you get. The best way to ruin a relationship is trying to change someone. It seems that it's your friend who has the problem. Follow your own heart and mind.
2007-01-28 13:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Shela B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.If they still have clothes on and you trust him. But if it continues to bother you maybe you two should sit down and talk about it. You never know, it might be some things he doesn't like that you do. When you are in a relationship you have to compromise sometimes to please one another. Good luck!
2007-01-28 13:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by CuriousJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your going out with him, and he's smoothing up with other girls - you should be mad. though he may argue that you never set up your relationship rules. though you could do what he's doing with other guys right in front of him. see what he says about that.
2007-01-28 13:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by mike s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be mad not jeolous.thats a big disrespect to you,for your bf to dance with other female in your presents.
2007-01-28 13:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by ms attitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋