theres a guy a like. at first he liked me too, and one of my friends, and they went out, and broke up. I still liked him, and he was single, but he only liked me as a friend. well that was like 2 weeks ago that they broke up, and i was over at his house tonight when he told me he had a girlfriend he was going to prom with. i have liked him and no one else for months, and i cant get him out of my head!! there have been other guys that people ahve tried toset me up with, or that i met, but i have my heart set on this one guy!!
How do i get him out of my head? or should i tell him how i feel (he knows i still like him though) about his gf? or should i wait until they break up? the thing is they already ahve prom plans.
what do i do?! im SOO confused!
2007-01-28 13:20:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was in a similar situation a few months ago and I know how irritating it can be. Trust me. Wanting someone you can't have or who doesn't want you back is probably one of the worst feelings. Especially if you really like that person and have dreamed of the two of you together. When you are with him, it's one of the best feelings in the world, even if you're just hanging out as friends. But then reality hits you hard when you find out he has another girlfriend and is not interested in you in that way. But the worst part is that he's still on your mind and no matter what you do or whom you meet, he's still the one that you want to be with and nothing can change your mind. I've been there and thankfully, have gotten over it after some time.
The best I can tell you, and I'm sorry if it doesn't sound like much, is give it time. If he really did like you, he probably would've asked you out already and had shown some interest. The fact that he hasn't probably means that he's moved on from liking you. He probably still sees you as a great person and someone who he can hang out with, but probably not be romantically involved with. That can change of course, but don't bet on it. The worst thing you can do is sit and wait around for him to come around because that might never happen. All you would be doing is wasting your time and might miss out on opportunities to be with other guys. One of my friends wisely said to me, "If you're not officially involved with anyone, you should never close yourself off from romantic possibilities." In other words, consider giving other guys chances even if at first you don't feel anything. You never know, feelings might develop. Trust me on that one too.
But the key to everything is time. With time, you will get over this guy and find someone else. Or maybe, in time he realizes that he likes and will come after you. But like I said, don't wait around for that to happen. Explore other options in the meantime.
Hope this helps!
2007-01-28 13:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by amcstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He already knows that you like him, and he has chosen to be with someone else. That should tell you that he just wants to be your friend, and maybe he will be a good friend to you.
Save yourself more heartache, and move on with your life. Some people are just not compatible with each other as boyfriend and girlfriend.
I have liked girls who did not like me, and I have had girls like me, but I did not like them in the same way. You will one day meet someone who really likes you, and you will like him just the same.
I know it hurts to really like someone who does not feel the same way, but believe me when I say, you will get over it. It just takes a little time.
Go out and have fun, and live your life. You will meet the right person when you least expect it.
2007-01-28 21:35:42 · answer #2 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he knows you like him then you reiterating the fact is only going to demean your feelings for him. Trust me, if a guy wants you, he WILL come for you. So don't bother with him, if someday he realizes he wants you, make him for it. Meanwhile, don't stress, look around and explore your options. No guys is worth your self respect and some pride and never forget that! A guy will respect you more if he knows that you respect yourself more than anything.
2007-01-28 21:25:51 · answer #3 · answered by skagen.2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out. if he says no then u can move on with your life. good luck
2007-01-28 21:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-28 21:24:57 · answer #5 · answered by brittttt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋