See my friends think he likes me but I don't because I don't think he thinks I'm good enough for him. Out of all the guys i've ever liked he seems to be perfect but I'm freakin terrified of being rejected!!! I'm also scared that if I do tell him that I like him he won't talk to me anymore...
Am I thinking too much?
2007-01-28 13:17:20 · 11 answers · asked by miles_away09 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i agree you are thinking to much. plus i can tell you have a self esteem issue you need 2 work on your confidence. Jus t go for it.. if it doesnt work out you'll live i promise
2007-01-28 13:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by luis4for43 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU are good enough and you carry yourself with confidence! No person is better than another. And if your rejected, so what. This is no reflection of who you are, it's just the wrong guy. That simple. And if he doesn't talk to you anymore-so what. Stop giving this guy so much power over you! You are the lady, he needs to win your heart, not the other way around. And HE thinks you aren't good for him? How arrogant on his part. Your probably too good for him! You sure you want this guy?What exactly are you getting?
2007-01-28 13:26:14 · answer #2 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know untill you try!!!. Ive had the same problem before and so I told the guy how I felt and well he did not like me in that way but it made us closer as friends :-). My sister has liked this guy for years now a good friend of hers she was always scared to tell him and then one day he told her he liked her for a long time and now they have been togthere for awhile now and happy as ever. If she would have said somthing years ago by now they could be married with kids all thow they do have plenty of time for that anyhow. I say go for it girl and good luck.
2007-01-28 13:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is normal to be really nervous. You should start practicing in front of the mirror or something. That way you are prepared. Otherwise, let your friend introduce you to him. Before your friend introduces you, tell her that she should watch your back and hide behind something. Then, start talking about things. After a while ask him if he likes you or not, or tell him that you do like him. If you were rejected, your friend is always there to comfort you.^^ Hope that helps.
2007-01-28 13:26:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have to fear, fear itself. Over come the rejection insecurities, and ask. You will never know until you try.
I went threw years of rejection until I found one that said yes.
We are now married 12 years.
2007-01-28 13:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by Oilfieldtrashwtx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are thinking to much over a guy! NOT worth it my dear..not worth it..chances are men just dont do the same,,,and why should we waste our time thinking about them that way. Just go with the flow thats all!
2007-01-28 13:22:00 · answer #6 · answered by blondie34 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
out of all the guy's you've ever liked? Sounds like you jump around a bit.
2007-01-28 13:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ur thinking too much! Take risk you never know when it's ur time to go!
2007-01-28 13:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax urself n go somewhere holidays with ur family.if he really loves u ,he w'd look out 4 u.
2007-01-28 13:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like me... *sighs
I said nothing and she moved away....
2007-01-28 13:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋