me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 6 months. Everytime he does something i like to do or something fun and i am not with him and he does it with someone else i get upset about it. I feel like i need to be there to do it with him. I dont particularly like being this way but i just cant help it. What should i do? Im just feel left out.
2007-01-28 13:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by Lindsey F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to start doing stuff with your friends. If you sit at home and think about what he is doing while you're sitting there being bored then of course you will get upset. Get out and have fun! It will probably help your relationship too!
Good Luck!
2007-01-28 13:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by Amaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him how you feel. Next time he does something that you are not involved with, tell him that the next time he is doing the same activity to let you know because you would like to be involved as well. If you have let him know that you want to be involved but he still doesn't include you, ask him why (instead of being upset and wondering that he doesn't want you to be there). Good relationship needs a lot of communication so don't hesistate to express how you feel. He won't know what's in your mind unless you speak out. Good luck.
2007-01-28 13:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable that you feel left out, especially if you really like him because you want to be with the person you love all the time and whenever you're having fun you want to share it with him. But to try to muffle these feelings establish a solid group of friends without him, I'm not saying to start going out without him but make sure that you always have someone to hang out with if he's going out, not out of spite but because you're feeling lonely.
2007-01-28 13:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by lilmissyme778 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to clearly tell him that it upsets you when he does thinks with someone that you enjoy doing and plan on doing something like that. He is your boyfriend, he should be wanting to go out and do things with you.
2007-01-28 13:11:06 · answer #4 · answered by forealztho69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new boyfriend he is just using you. If he was proud of you and him being together he would take you to those outings too.
2007-01-28 13:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by Oilfieldtrashwtx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you ever do anything fun with your boyfriend? If not, then get rid of him. You are not his friend to have fun with, you are just a convenience to be taken advantage of.
2007-01-28 13:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let him know how you feel. It could be that he has no idea that he is doing these things. Does he know that you're into those kind of activities?
2007-01-28 13:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by Licia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and let the guy have a life. You are his girlfriend not is PO
2007-01-28 13:10:20 · answer #8 · answered by dolphinsfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah talk to him about your feelings but if he continues it after you talk to him about it then he really doesn't love you or he doesn't care about your feelings...Good Luck
2007-01-28 13:10:39 · answer #9 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel, my bf did that to me before and he didnt realize that it hurt me that he wouldnt ask me to come along.
2007-01-28 13:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by msX 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋