My friend is going out with a guy but she is still in love with her ex boyfriend and he still loves her they want to be together again but shes afraid to brake up with her new boyfriend because she has to see him everyday on our bus.....and she feels bad because he really loves her and she does like him but not as much as her ex and her new boyfriends brother said dont go and brake eachothers hearts now....so she feels bad what do i tell her to do .
2007-01-28 12:59:05 · 18 answers · asked by chauntel c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with the one you love.
There is nothing worse then living your life in a lie
2007-01-28 13:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you can point out that someone is going to get hurt, and she has to be honest with the new boyfriend, if her heart is still with the first boyfriend and they can get over what caused them to break up in the first place then she needs to be honest with the second one and tell him she needs some time to sort out her feelings for her ex boyfriend. That she is feeling confused. And if her ex is trying to get back into her life and he finds out she has a new boyfriend she is in for a whole lot of hurt.
2007-01-28 21:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by fluffyflo_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to break up if shes in love with her ex shes already hurting her boyfriend by not telling the truth say to him that she still loves him more as a peer then a partner and she should go back to her ex and if hes **** then she falls for the wrong guys and she should stay with the guys that make her feel good
2007-01-28 21:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by laser_179228 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her all is fair in love and war. They will all end up miserable if she won't break-up with this guy because as of now she's already cheating him. Open-up and tell that guy he deserved to be happy and at the moment that person who could do that is not her. If you love someone you must give the whole you and not just a portion of it.
2007-01-28 21:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by mardiel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to try to have a good conversation with her boyfriend and to tell him that she is really sorry but she wants to break up with him. Tell her to tell him that he is very nice but she just likes her ex so much and doesn't want to cheat on him. Apologize and try to be nice. Good luck!!!
2007-01-28 21:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there !!!!
You could tell your girlfriend to be true to herself and to the boy she is with now. if she has feelings for her ex, and he has feelings for her, well she has to make the choice. Be cautious on what you say, give her some advice, but I would not tell her what to do. This has to be something she does.
love light and peace
2007-01-28 21:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this one is easy if your friend knows how to be l3itch then just be really mean to the boyfriend she does not want to go out with and move on no reason to dwell on this
2007-01-28 21:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh man, she just has to go with her gut
, be awkward around the new boyfriend for some "love" she feels towards the other?
or try to get over the "love" and may possibly get close with the new?
2007-01-28 21:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it with the guy now, prolonging it only makes her look bad and will hurt him more. It's ok to break up with him. we all go thru it. Just tell her to be kind when she ends it.
2007-01-28 21:02:51 · answer #9 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if hes on her bus? she'll get over it and he'll get over it. just tell her to dump the guy and go out with her ex. shes gotta be strong :-)
2007-01-28 21:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by mimi2424 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋