i have a friend and its a boy and im a girl and i wanna know if the way 2 get him 2 ask me out is 2 come on to him strong because he seems to like it and he wants me 2 i can tell and i really wanna have sex with him but idk the effects or results of that. please help me.
2007-01-28 12:58:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like this guy, the best thing you can give him is a healthy relationship. This means you stay away from the sex stuff. No healthy relationship just starts with sex. Especially at your age. If you make that mistake, I think you'll end up regretting it in a short amount of time. Next week he won't respect you and he'll think you trash. You'll probably get your heart broke... that's not what u want... is it?
Instead, evaluate your feelings for this guy... What are the based on? Is just because he's cute? Maybe just because he's cool? Or, do you like him because you can tell he genuinely cares for you and doesn't just want to get in your pants... Remember, if he really does care for you, he's not going to want to just take advantage of you and will realize that having sex at your age could hurt you emotionally and physically. If he's doesn't care about that, he doesn't really love you anyway. Dump him and find someone who has true respect for you.
2007-01-28 13:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by JT 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well um wow lol i first had sex at 11 1/2 and the only effect it had was i wanted it more and dont come on strong you might scare him but you said he likes that kinda of thing so do what you do you sound like you already no what you want to do so BYE!.
o yea make sure you use a condom
DAMN CACTUS78 CALM DOWN
2007-01-30 08:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just want to say don't have sex for a while. masturbate. if you have strong urges, just use some thing to orgasm.
even if you have sex, chances are you won't have a orgasm.
I get the feeling you might not be a virgin, but if you are please wait a little longer.
you are 13, and in less then ten years you will wish you were 13 again, so don't be in a rush to grow up. because you will never be 13 again. time only moves forward and you should experience what you have as long as you can. you can have sex any time, but you can't go back to how you idealized thing before sex.
2007-01-28 13:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by The Brown Bomber 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't do it!! Just ask to be his friend first and then take it slow and he may ask if you want to be his girlfriend.I know you don't want to hear it but don't have sex. You're too young for the responsibility.I bet you don't even have a job. What if you had a child? I doubt you're even in high school yet. You need to be able to support yourself and at least have a diploma before even thinking about having sex. I knew too many teens that became pregnant in high school. My cousin had her child at 19, she's 20 now. She wanted to go to college, and I doubt she'll ever do it now. Wait for the right person.If it's true love, the guy will wait for you. I'm 20 and I'm a virgin. You won't die from not having sex. You can get pregnant, diseases(including HIV), and a bad reputation. What would your parents tell you? Please, please, please wait.
2007-01-28 13:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by existingtobe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Save the relationship drama for a few years and enjoy being 13
2007-01-28 13:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by dolphinsfan 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, don't have sex. You're 13. You have no idea what you'll be getting into if you do. Wait until you've both grown normal body parts.
Second of all, who says he has to ask you out? Why don't YOU ask HIM?
2007-01-28 13:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are 13 years old missy!!! You should not have sex untill you are older. When you are 13 and a half, then you can hump him like a dog.
2007-01-28 13:05:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're to young for sex and trying to hard will make him run in the other direction
2007-01-28 13:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by msX 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave the sex alone for another 12 years or til your married. If this guy had any balls then he'd ask you out.
2007-01-28 13:08:43 · answer #9 · answered by Dr.DRE 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your only 13. i know you've heard this many times, but enjoy your childhood while it lasts. i think that this boy should like you for you, and not because he wants to use your body. Talk to him, get to know him, and maybe...after you to have gotten married, have sex.
2007-01-28 13:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by iwannajess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋