Theres this guy I realy truely love but he says that he doesnt feel that way towards me. His exact words were,"I do care about you, a little bit." Oh boy I feel special, not. It really hurts. What should I do?
2007-01-28 12:57:28 · 13 answers · asked by borimnstr3422 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may hurt but, you have to move on and don't look back at him.
He is the most selfish person and you need to find someone who can treat you they way you need to be treated.
Good Luck
2007-01-28 13:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it is a little hard. I have the attention of so many men, but i am stocked on the one that does not love me back. My attention, thoughts and passion, all go to him. All my senses and rational self tell me to let him go. I try to be pragmatic about it, but it is hard, very hard. I say you give yourself time. With time, the strong feelings you have for him will dissipate. In the meantime, try to keep busy and meet other people. You may find someone else you are interested in. That would really help you. Good luck!
2007-01-28 13:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by lulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she extremely loves u she would not enable nething get interior the way of her happiness and being wit u. some thing else is up wit that. U can't make her love u, there is not any way 2 do it. If she would not care enuff about u now, u shouldn't try 2 stress her 2, there are various of females available. U'll locate some1 who needs 2 be wit u 4 u and ur relatives's conception's. U jus go with 2 cut back it now so as that u do not get nemore harm than u already are. locate some1 who will care about u regardless and u do not ought to agonize about tryin 2 cause them to love u.
2016-10-16 05:52:13 · answer #3 · answered by pelt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry...but you have to let him go...and find someone that truly can love you like you love him. A relationship has to be 50/50 all the way! Maybe in the future he will realize he does feel more for you, but you cant wait around for him. Move forward w/o him.
2007-01-28 13:05:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve to be with someone that doesn't care for you. Some day someone will come around and they will treat you like a princess. You will be so much happier when that happens. I didnt thing there was no such thing as a person that can treat me like a queen/princess. But there is. You find him when you least expect it.
2007-01-28 13:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by canada4me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you know him? If it has been for a very short time he might be senseing it's not love you have for him right now. but lust and lust does't last .If things are going to fast.Why shouldn't he be cautious..Especially, if he is unsure of his own feelings.
yes, what he said to you was very insentive...typical of most of us guys...I remember saying to a girl a long time ago. I liked her , while she loved me.. I couldn't say what I thought wasn't so then.well we spent a lot of time together ;becoming friends pals and later my best buddy. After a while I didn't want to be without her.. I grew to love her , and we had a marriage that lasted 25 years.
good luck. search your feeling ,what do you really want..
2007-01-28 14:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by nervous 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey hes not it for you. take some time and move on to finding that man that can love you just as deeply as you love him. I hope you feel better.......and remember you are special to someone and if it wasnt for you at least one person in this world wouldnt be alive.
2007-01-28 13:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that does care for you. I know it hurts, but one-sided relationships aren't fun. besides be more confident in yourself girl! Go get ya one that does care! Thank him for his honesty and move on.
2007-01-28 13:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by LisaLou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Figure out why you love someone who doesn't love you. Love is a choice, not a disease you catch and can't get rid of.
2007-01-28 13:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray and be your self. Dont try to pretend. Just show him affection the way that you are.
2007-01-28 13:00:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋