Okay, there is this guy. We are VERY good friends, but a few years ago, (we've been friends for nine and a half years) he moved to Wisconsin, and I live in Michigan. We used to be "together" and we have kissed and hugged eachother, but when we did kiss, we thought we were too young. We never really told eachother that we wern't bf and gf, but we just never really talked about it and we just forgot about it. I always think about him when people talk about love and stuff like that. I think he is kinda annyoing, but when I really think about it, he is very sweet and kind and nice and I realized that he REALLY cares about me. He even told me himself. He always stands up for me when people are being rude or mean. I think I do "like" him because I always find myself remembering how great that was to be with him. Please tell me, I cannot figure it out myself...Am I In Love?
2007-01-28 12:27:21 · 24 answers · asked by AL 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, just to let you know, we're not old enough to get married, AND he still comes w/ his family to come visit here and we come there.
i am really shy...so shy that i dont want to call him!!! i dont know what to do !!!
2007-01-28 12:40:44 · update #1
Yes, you love him.. but only you can know if you are IN love or not. Just keep telling him how much he means to you and that you miss him. If you aren't afraid to you should also tell him you love him.
2007-01-28 12:32:55 · answer #1 · answered by purple stars13 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. Call him!! You need to ask a few questions. Is he Married? Is he Single? How does he feel about you now? Would he like to meet up with you? If there are favourable answers, tell him how you feel. Give it a shot. You both could end up really happy together. Hope that helps. Take care and good luck. :-)
2007-01-28 20:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Dominic John 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u are, if yall kissed hugged, then ur really in love. if u all thought about u were 2 young then that means that youre showing that u care and that u dont ont anything to mess up the relationship
2007-01-28 20:33:31 · answer #3 · answered by daendre l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you probably are in love and he's probably feeling the same way, I would advice to GO FOR IT! Never never leave yourself with the doubt of "what could have been". If you feel it, and according to how you describe him, he feels it too, then it's a match made.
2007-01-28 20:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had your good fortune...I have a "friend" right now who i've known for quite a few years. And I love her...But alas it was tragic. Call this guy and love him and never leave him, because true love like that is priceless and hard to find.
2007-02-05 20:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...if you want to be known as gay,then you are in love.You should get your loved ones(family members)to call him and ask if he could come down.Maybe he will truly admit he likes you,and maybe he won't.Just tell him your feelings in a letter.or an email.or a phone call. or even telling him in person.I know rejection hurts,but it's a part of life.Be brave!tell him your feelings!I Had to tell a guy i liked him and we're still dating!!!So,just talk to him.It's o.k.he'll understand. Hope I helped!
2007-01-30 17:51:41 · answer #6 · answered by Karabear96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, YES, YES....you are i dont know how old you arenow, but if you have ever dated or thought you were in love, it all comes back to the same thing...right.......your first love and soul mate, im sure u find yourself day dreaming all the time too, because you cant seem to shake him off
2007-01-28 20:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by QUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly its hard to say if you are in love or not it just hits you one day, but i would have to say yes you are. i had a friend kinda like that she never moved away but instead i acted like an *** to her. he seems really sweet, a much better man than me. call him up one day if you can and talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. i really wish i had enough guts to tell my friend and i will probably regret it. good luck and dont give up, please dont.
2007-01-28 20:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it, but you can love a good friend too. Not the same, as I'm sure you are aware. If you are both single and unattached, why not see if he wants to rekindle and see where it leads.
2007-01-28 20:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by Deb 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that a person that is in love with another wants to be with that person all the time. I think they don't want to leave each other's company when they are together. They want to please each other and do things together. If these are the things that is going on with you perhaps you are in LOVE.
2007-01-28 20:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by oldone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋