1) I really like this girl.
2) Story: About a good two weeks ago, i asked this girl to the movies and she said yes. I followed up a little while later and she never really picked up her phone. And now she hasnt even said hi to me in school. Im thinking of leaving her a voicemail asking her out. Im split equally between "this is a bad idea" and "i dont wanna live life saying what if..."
someone please help me
2007-01-28 12:26:33 · 13 answers · asked by blah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1) I really like this girl.
2) Story: About a good two weeks ago, i asked this girl to the movies and she said yes. I followed up a little while later and she never really picked up her phone. And now she hasnt even said hi to me in school. Im thinking of leaving her a voicemail asking her out. Im split equally between "this is a bad idea" and "i dont wanna live life saying what if..."
someone please help me
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thanks
2007-01-28 12:28:10 · update #1
if you have not gone out on a date with her [movies] don't ask her out yet. It will bring you more confusion or hurt. My advice is to write her a note about how you feel right now [confused, and that you like her] and ask her to also write you back on how she feels. Then basically hope for the best, if she doesn't write you back at all, my advice is to wait a couple of weeks and try again. She does sound shy and nervous from what you've said. So first step is to break her of her shyness and get her comfortable with talking to you. Don't ask someone out without making sure you will talk regularly with them, that is a big mistake a lot of people make. Then it turns out to become you "going out" with someone you rarely talk to.
2007-01-28 13:32:42 · answer #1 · answered by just amanda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how u feel, because ive been through the same thing. But I say to hell with her , dont have feelings for someone whos gonna hurt you becausse in the end youll still be saying what if basically what if you tried another girl someone who will respect u and ur feelings,yes do leave her a message and let her know whats on ur mind if she answers her hone talk to her and if she is being an a**hole just let her say what she gotta say and see what happens from here if u need me my email is tonguelisciouslove@yahoo.com
Ok:)
2007-01-28 20:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by tonguelisciouslove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow - i kinda don't understand your question cause if she said yes to going to the movies then there shouldn't really be a problem. Just confront her face to face and let her know a time and day that you will pick her up and tell her that she can choose the movie. Say something like - hey xxxxx i'll pick you up on Friday at 7 to watch a movie - your choice - and see what she says - don't ask her to go - just tell her
2007-01-28 20:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what if, what not, try never to let a person get the best of you, If she does not answer the phone move on quickly she sees you calling, caller ID, move on to someone esle, or leave her a message telling her she could at least pick up the phne, and tell you why or why not you do deserve that much. Still be a gentlman because there is that stalking law
2007-01-28 20:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok all my friends r guy and the have no balls they wouldent even ask some1 2 tha movies ur showin guts and if you think you wont be able to live life without askin her then do it but be prepared to be mocked alot try askin her out in person then you dont have 2 hear ppl mockin ur voicemail
2007-01-28 20:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by blue_eyed_blue_jeans 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I don't think she is that into you. She might be too shy to let you know......that's how I am. Move on. If it still bothers you then ask her. Now, it is a really bad idea to ask her out just like that if she isn't trying to talk to you.
2007-01-28 20:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she not nervous. She went out for you for probably two reasons. She felt sorry for you or she wanted to she if you were a nice guy. She's not into you. So move on and find someone else. :) Hope you feel better! :)
2007-01-28 20:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by Hunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just try coming up to her at school. if she talks to u normally, then everythings fine, ask her out. the what if will kill u if u dont go for it, but dont get ur heart broken
2007-01-28 20:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Christine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested. Maybe shes doing the right thing, go to school to learn and not to flirt.
2007-01-28 20:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go up to her at skool and tell her:: hi, so how have you been:: just start with wmall conversations.. and once you feel comfortable tell her how you feel... after that if things go smoothly then ask her out.. the rest is up to her... good luck
2007-01-28 20:30:36 · answer #10 · answered by need_help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋