ok if u dont know me i am gay and i have and lover and one day i get a call tellin me i cant talk to her anymore because of da fact we go out and her parents found out and now her parents are mad because dey founded out about us going togather so now dey made her move with her dad and change skools and she waz tellin me i cant speak to her anymore so we dont talk at ALL and she told me to wait for her which iz 3 years and im mad cuz i love her and i dont want to lose her and i dont know what to do in des three years and az i wait and see i think when these three years gonna go by real slow so i dont know im mad cuz of whats going on can yall help me out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!plz
2007-01-28 12:17:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you? 3 years is a long time......heck! a year is a long time! If there's love, then wait patiently. Love isn't pushy or desperate when its real. It will hurt, but if there's true love then time will not be able to kill it. Still, continue moving forward. Get your education and don't just sit around waiting. She might be ready to move on and just not telling you to not hurt your feelings.
2007-01-28 12:23:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, move where she goes, I dont know what else to tell you! If you cant wait, and if she cant get out of the plan her parents made for her then I dont see a way other than YOU Moving there OR move on with your life!
2007-01-28 20:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. Three years is a long time to wait if you have no contact whatsoever. If you love someone, you can do it though it will be painful. Will you be able to keep in touch at all? If you don't want to lose her, do all you can to keep in some sort of contact even if it isn't physical contact. Maybe things can turn around and change.
2007-01-28 20:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you truly love her, wait for her.. but there's a whole life ahead of you.. she should know better than to tell you to wait for her. you're probablly going to wait longer than three years. im not trying to insult or diss anyone but you'll maybe even end up waiting your whole life for her. she might move on without you and you'll still be lost and mad. three years does go by slow if your constantly wanting something. i think maybe, if you can, tell her you'll wait her for three years, but during the three years, you're free to do anything. and in the end, you'll know whether or not you love her. love is a very confusing and frustrating thing. dont underestimate it and think it's only about butterfiles and compromise. love is a hard thing to go through. maybe at the end of the wait, you'll know it was worth it.. or maybee it wasn't..
just do what feels right.
good luckk
2007-01-28 20:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by agnnes kiim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, truly love her, then wait, but if this is just an infatuation then still love her, but if something better comes along, get with the something better.
2007-01-28 20:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by amazon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should move on.. 3 yrs. is alot and you might find someone new
2007-01-28 20:22:11 · answer #6 · answered by need_help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more concerned about your spelling
2007-01-28 20:25:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
move on!!
2007-01-28 20:21:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋