I broke up with my BF because he is cheating on me.
it seems that he doesnt care about our break up...
I cant get over our break up...
i feel so bad waking up in the morning...
i guess i'm nothing without him
is this the end of the world?
will i find someone greater than him?
Can i forget about him?
What will i do
I want to die
2007-01-28 12:10:19 · 43 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll find someone better. If he cheated on you, he's definitely not giving you the respect you need. Though these are hard times you're going through, you should always keep in mind about the things you did to keep the relationship together, and that you gave it your best shot.
Trust me, there's someone out there, not too far away from you, that will appreciate completely who you are, and what you will be able to provide him, and he will reciprocate as well.
Trust in yourself always, know that you're worthy of a better man, and you will get that man sooner than what you expect.
Don't give up, there's someone out there made specially and exclusively for you only!
2007-01-28 12:16:08 · answer #1 · answered by cucajoe 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not the end of the world....
Yes you will find someone greater than him...
You will forget about him it will just take some time...
Whatever you do, don't get back with him because he obviously doesn't care about you and will more than likely hurt you again. It is soooo hard to break up with someone. Look at all the songs they have about cheating and breaking up! It hurts everyone and it hurts deep. It is a part of life though and everyone will go through it a time or two. You just have to worry about YOURSELF right now and everything else will fall into place. It might feel like the end of the world but I can assure you it isn't. It's not even close! You will be okay just give yourself time to heal. Years from now you probably won't even care about this particular boy!
2007-01-28 12:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Amaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, congratulations on breaking up with him, no guy that cheats on you is worth being with- at all. Secondly, since he cheated on you, he didn't show any consideration for your relationship, so it only follows that he wouldn't really care about the break-up. Don't worry, you deserve so much better, and you will find someone, once you have given youself enough time to get over this bastar.d, as hard as that may be to understand now, it will happen. Try to take up a new hobbie, go out with friends, think about what you were interested in before this relationship that you may have forgotten about. Time heals all, cliche but true. Good Luck, and don't look back!
2007-01-28 12:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by ophierose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your situation. I understand. I recently was in a similar situation.
I could tell you "Its good you found out now and not years later", or that "Your to good for him" and I'm sure that these are all true. The truth of the matter is that if he was not honestly committed to the relationship, than he was not for you. The way I see it, you don't cause painful, disrespectful or inconsiderate situation like these to someone you truly love or have strong feelings for. Even if it wasn't true love and he just cared for you it does not excuse his behavior. Don't blame yourself or the person he is with. He knew the commitment he had with you and if he chose to not respect that then, move on...
I know it's not easy because you feel hurt and deceived... I suggest cry, cry; cry nothing heals the soul like crying. Have what I call "the pity party” then dry your eyes and go on with your life, not regretting your past because our experiences are lessons in life. Be strong, you are a marvelous creation of our God. You might not ever forget him, but with time, you will heal. One day you will remember, and with a smile on your face say "What a fool" because, he will never know how good he could have had it with you in his life. Don't try so hard to forget... just remember the lesson so that you will not trip on the same stone in the future.
You will not die, trust me...you will not die. There will be days that are easier than other but you will live and be a stronger person because of this. So cry if you must but remember that "This to shall pass".
2007-01-28 12:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is cheating on you and you feel bad about it? Don't. I know that doesn't make things easier. Isn't it weird how us females react to someone who we should actually be angry with and get rid of? Why oh why are we like this. I've been through that several times in my days and nothing what others told me helped, because it wasn't what I wanted to hear. I just wanted them to fix it and they couldn't. After crying for days on end and not doing much of anything I'd slowly get back into the life of things and eventually found someone else. At some point you realize that it wasn't so bad and have hope. I wish there was a magic wand to make it all better, but there isn't.
2007-01-28 12:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never had him in the first place.
If a person cheats, they were never yours. There is, of course, the chance he could change but then where did the saying, Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater, come from?
I highly recommend that you move on. Write about it, poetry dark and twisted, or get a hobby that allows you to open up and release some pent up emotions.
Whatever you do, don't regret leaving him, don't pine for him and definitely don't ever EVER take him back.
You are way better off. The sooner you accept and believe that, the better your days will be.
2007-01-28 12:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by DragonWrites the Fire Faery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my BF because he is cheating on me.
it seems that he doesn't care about our break up.... well why would he?
You broke up with him because he cheated on you, you can't get over it because he cheated on you or because you broke up with him....
You will get over the break up trust me on that I have been in a similar situation and it took my brother (who always had a girlfriend) telling me that I am not the ONLY person in the world who ever had a bad breakup, he told me that he too had a bad breakup...
He took the pain that I had inside me (which I thought only i ever felt) and he placed it on him self.... Like I said before he always had a girlfriend... there is some one out there for you DON'T DWELL ON THE FACT THAT YOUR BF CHEATED ON YOU... you kicked him to the curb because he did you wrong, stand tall regain your confidence, you are much better than that... and I don't even know you, but your hurting inside and i know THAT pain....... Look toward the Lord He will never leave you and always will Love you
2007-01-28 12:20:29 · answer #7 · answered by kevferg64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me i know it feels like the end of the world and that the next day you hope you wont wake up but after a while although you may not be completely over it but you will find somebody better and worth loving. whatever you do dont give up because love is always out there all you have to do is wait until you find it. also try your best to find something to do during the day so it will distract you and you wont be so depressed, in other words stay away from the computer believe me it helps.
2007-01-28 12:17:41 · answer #8 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gawd no way! you dont have to die over a guy you know! right now you feel like its the end of the world, but its not! i know i am stating the obvious, but seriously, he was this one guy, and youll get more guys. gettin a bf is your own choice. so when youre feeling ok hit the clubs again. but for now, try to get over this guy. he couldnt have been perfect (no one is) and just think about what you learnt from the relatioinship. thats what relationships are for, not all relationships last forever (even though you want them to) . so just be happy that you had a great time. start spending more time with your friends, and everything will be normal again. youll fall in love again. thats the way its meant to be. you just gotta believe in that fact, you will have another relationship again!
2007-01-28 12:20:51 · answer #9 · answered by pwincez for life! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
princess, i know how you're feeling right now, but i think you should get over him. maybe you already have gotten over him but you need to get over the fact that it isnt the end of the world because you dont have a boyfriend. i think you already know he cheated on you because he didnt love you, and i know that sounds harsh but maybe you didnt love him either. but right now you think you did because your feeling like your breaking apart. but soon enough, you'll realize it was just another jerk and you'll find a person who will treat you even better but dont think that's true love.. it might be, but what are the chances.. just enjoy life, and you can live without a man. a princess doesnt always need a prince to live happily ever happy. that's just in fairytales.. this is the mean, cold truth about reality.
good luck, with a bowl of icecream.
2007-01-28 12:18:34 · answer #10 · answered by agnnes kiim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋