When i met my guy we started out as friends, and then things developed. he started trying to get me to open up more, to share everything, he was loving and he actually got me out of an abusive relationship.
Then things got heavier, he wanted me to need him, to let him in further, to let him know where i was going to be all the time. i thought it was sweet cos he was worried about me. now things are different, he has changed alot. he withdraws affection if he feels like i have done 'wrong' one time i was wrong for going out with my mum and sister and not telling them i couldn't go when he called. we live apart temporarily and he gets me to call the USA. he calls and then asks me to call back. he calls anytime, 4am, whatever. but i cant do the same thing. i can only call just before he goes to bed, or on his lunchtime. he blames me for the tiniest little thing, like i sent him a present and the box got dented, he didn't thank me he just blamed me. i dont know if he's the guy i loved
2007-01-28 11:57:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's called mental/emotional abuse honey. Leave him you deserve better.
2007-01-28 12:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Minton quest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course he's not the guy you loved. He's "settled in" and the relationship doesn't need the same maintenance as it did. Get used to it or get out because it won't change. BTW, you need some help figuring out how it is you don't respect yourself and honor yourself so that you don't get next to the same sort of abusive guy again.
2007-01-28 20:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your back in an abusive relationship. ma bey something happened to him talk to him, if he doesn't want to talk i say dump him
2007-01-28 20:07:55 · answer #3 · answered by The one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to say good bye.
2007-01-28 20:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by pooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋