I am 24 going on 25, have never been laid, never kissed, never had a girlfriend, never even had a girl like me before, and have zero self-confidence when it comes to dating because of the harsh manner in which the opposite sex reacts to me.
2007-01-28 11:57:37 · 7 answers · asked by gone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
jrs678, in my experience, girls have always reacted negatively to me. Always, without exception. This has been going on for over ten years. I would have more confidence if at least one girl in this entire world liked me.
2007-01-28 12:02:35 · update #1
Listen, first of all you have to give things time. My sister was 25 and she was a virgin too. She died at 35.
If you want to just do the act, I'd say get your keister to Vegas and spend some money on it. You will get a pro for the first time and you will like it. Put a rain coat on. (That's a rubber).
There is someone for everyone on this planet, you haven't found the person for you yet. That takes time. I married my second husband when I was 29, we have been married over seven years. It took time to find someone for me after a broken first marriage and a broken 5-years of dating someone else which went no where. (The relationship).
Keep smiling, find the joy in life. Sex is second to the joys in life, trust me.
2007-01-28 12:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by jayndee13 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
hello, are things really as bad as you think or are you just being hard on yourself? I'm a 22 year old female and so, theoretically, It's girls like me that you seem to be having the most trouble with. Why would a girl react badly toward you? is there an actual reason or is it all in your head? Perhaps you have been bruised by the reaction of a girl in the past, well, screw her, whoever she was cos you're not going to feel crap anymore about life or about yourself. There are more girls than you think out there that would love to have a man that has not gotten around and is new to the whole dating scene. Who wants a man thats been around the block anyway? There are also a lot of women out there that are just as inexperienced as yourself and just waiting for someone to help them out of their shell. You are not doing any of these girls, or any girl for that matter, any favours by hiding yourself away and wishing a nice girl will come and rescue you. What you need to do is believe in yourself, get out there, and find someone great who you enjoy spending time with and who likes you for you. There is no rush, you are still a young guy, you don't need to prove anything to anyone by just 'getting laid' with any old scrubber. Relax, focus on your positives, enjoy yourself and i'm sure you will be having fun in no time. Good luck
2007-01-28 20:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young, AND you still have the advantage here. You are a male. You can approach women easier than they can approach you. Perhaps if you focus on getting to know some females, rather than just "getting laid" you will make friendships that might turn into something more. Nobody wants to be used, including you.
Evaluate what you are looking for and how you approach people. Perhaps that is the problem. Good luck.
2007-01-28 20:08:08 · answer #3 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not all of the opposite sex will react to u in a negative way
BOOST UR CONFIDENCE by not thinking a girl is judging u when ur talking to her
be cool
2007-01-28 20:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by Fellinlovetoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were a girl I'd say I'm sure were ever you through it some one will catch it. but being a guy is a little different. take out a yahoo personal add. or create a my space page. you never know what might happen
2007-01-28 20:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by night_lilly66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no confidence, women can see that and that is a turn off. You need to get some self esteem.
2007-01-28 20:01:18 · answer #6 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hooker
2007-01-28 20:02:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋