I have two guys who claim to love me but I just don't know. One of them took me for granted for 7 years but has been much better over the past year and a half to "prove himself" to me. I care about him but are not in love anymore though I stay because we have kids. The other I believe is my soul mate and I still have unconditional love for him. We tried to be together. We moved fast and he even invited my children and I to move into his new home with him. Everyone was against us though and it brought about so much stress. Custody battles, our Xs harrassing us, his new job was threatened as well as our financial stability. It all became too much and I guess more than we could handle. We didn't even have a real chance and both of us ended up back with our Xs out of convenience, despite our swearing that we never would and that we only wanted to be with each other.
2007-01-28 11:32:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that is it with love come responsibilities and strength. it was just too much for u 2 to comprehend at one time. but that is ok though now u can say u learn a lesson. but goin back 2 ur xes should hav been a no no. if u really believe that u 2 r soul mates then go back to him and this time u fight together.
2007-01-28 11:47:29 · answer #1 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we learn each day...
before we learn, we take things for granted until they are no longer there...
Is it fair to say, I took someone for granted, without knowing what it will feel like when they are not there anymore?
Is it fair to say, I learnt my lesson and I know that if we ever meet again, or for the next person to come, I'll never take things for granted again?
we take things for granted every day, we also learn how it feels like when they are no longer there...
it's always the ones we love that we cant be with, but if we keep the hope and remove the words 'give up', we'll eventually get there... there's no harm in trying and every try we make or do, we wipe of another piece of regret.
2007-01-28 11:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by calv83luc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to tell you this straight follow your heart and if your heart says you love the second guy and he loves you then be with him and if yall love eachother like you think then yall will be able to break right through yall Xs togther i mean come on you love the man your kids love the man and he loves you and your kids that's Mr.Right sitting infront of your face so yall shouldnt let yall Xs come between yall. If he is a good man then keep they dont come around all the time.
2007-01-28 11:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a guy runs after things get tough it wasnt really love
2007-01-28 11:38:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know your answer... a real lover never ever walk away
OR
Whoever walk away is not a true lover...
OR
LOVE means STAY unconditionally....
Therefore, whoever walk away...disregard of his/her explanaions... he/she had never been true lover...
2007-01-28 11:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by Iranian Amigo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People just do this for some reason.
Good Luck
2007-01-28 11:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when someone take you for granted is no love there..
2007-01-28 11:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your soul mate...wasn't what was meant to be after all....
2007-01-28 11:37:12 · answer #8 · answered by KT! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋