MY CURRENT BOYFRIEND WENT BEHIND MY BACK AND MET UP WITH OTHER GIRLS ONLINE. ALSO HE LIED TO ME ABOUT ALOT OF THINGS. HE DOESNT KNOW THAT I KNOW, BUT I HAVE GOOD EVIDENCE. SO ANY IDEAS ABOUT HOW I SHOULD CONFRONT HIM ABOUT IT ?
2007-01-28 11:32:08 · 40 answers · asked by badmab07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, it depends.....
Judging from some of your previous answers and questions,you seem like a reasonable person, and I suspect you're not the revenge type, but you use the word fun. But sometime even nice girls like to let the bad girl out to run sometimes.
1. If you're a nice girl in a closed social situation, like high scool, where everone knows everyone, and you've been done like this several times, it might be time to do something real nasty, just to put other guys on notice that you're not a doormat.
it has to be public and embarassing, and known to be from you.
2. If you're after personal satisfaction, then his misery is your goal, and that could be best anon.
3. But, it could be, if he's an hyper a**hole, (for lack of a better word) then his mind won't slow down enough for him to be hurt. You'd be wasting your time, and never be satisfied yo hurt him.
For 1, I'm sure you'll get a lot of advice.
For 2 If he's got a car, and his ego is attached to it, you could do something to it. I always recommend getting a tire valve tool and turn out the valves slighly such that they leak slowly. Or get a turkey baster and some rubber tubing, and putting used oil up in the tail pipe. It'll smoke for a while.
But the best revenge always fits the crime. Find go online with a fake identiy and court him on the site, arrage a meeting and have a big friend greet him claiming to be the husband of of the sexy hot babe he was expecting, or better yet a transvestite.
I'm interested to see what else is suggested.
2007-01-28 11:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by mt_hopper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have some guy you like, a guy you trust not to hurt you or take advantage, be with you so that your b.f. sees you two together. Maybe have some guys pass you notes so he sees you get them. Or intercepts the note, which says something like, "So see you at such and such a time, at such and such a place?"
When he brings it up, you can then confront him.
Or better yet, have some very good womyn friends tempt your boyfriend into a situation where he drops his pants, then suddenly the spotlight or camera catches him, and you post it all over the place.
2007-01-28 11:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't confront him, what's the use, what can be gained actually. I would look the very best I could look even if I had to wear waist chincers and extensions, then I would find a great looking guy, maybe his best friend and prance right in front of him. When he asked me what I was doing I would tell I was doing what he could not, being honest. Then there's the one ....
2007-01-28 11:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go online as a different girl and start flirting with him etc.
I'd wait about a week or so and then drop the bomb by either sending my picture or meeting him for a date! Boy, will his face be red. You can then let him know what a sleazer he his as you are breaking up with him.
2007-01-28 11:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print out the evidence you have, and write a letter to go along with it. Then, mail him a bottle of acne medication. You could put it all in a small gift box and drop it off at his mailbox or get a friend to give it to him at school. It's hilarious! My best friend did it to her ex 3 years ago, and the whole school found out! The funny thing,was thta the guy had mild acne, and he started freaking out, and he had an outbreak, lmao!
2007-01-28 11:34:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Contact Cheaters!
2007-01-28 12:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by jammer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha a**hole! I hate guys who cheat, had it done to me too many times. If you really wanna hurt him plan a night out and have him meet you there and when he arrives already be there with another guy preferably a hot one! Not only will he look dumb and feel hurt, he'll be embarrassed. But at least he knows what it feels like to get his heart ripped out!
2007-01-28 11:36:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally ignore him never speak to him again, don't even waste your time talking to him or dumping his a$$.
Move on and leave him wondering what the hell he did to ruin the relationship and lose probably the best thing that loser will ever have in his life.
2007-01-28 11:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if he has a car then listen to the song and:
That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...
(maybe next time he'll think before he cheats)
2007-01-28 11:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a Idea,Make him think that you are talking about someone else Then see how he react to what you are talking about then show him that Evidence and enjoy that look on his face ...lmao
2007-01-28 11:38:56 · answer #10 · answered by It's all Love!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋