My ex-bf recently called me to go see a movie with him. I did, he picked me up, then he drove me home. He told me that he wants to see me every once in awhile? What does that mean? We didn't date very long, and HE was the one who ended it. We also never went past kissing cuz I'm saving mysefl for marriage. Does he have bad intentions and when will he realize how great I am? Some say he's just after sex, but he knows my strict beliefs on premarital sex & if really wanted to trick me wouldn't he have treated me me much better during the movie date? Since he wanted to see me does it mean he has a little feelings for me? We hadn't seen each other in one year when he called me so it was really strange, but he would still talk to me on msn during this year. Why did he do that and what does he want? He's 26 and I'm 21. He's in grad school & he even got hired for a good job while I'm finshing university. Is he ready to settle down or is he just stringing me along.
2007-01-28 11:29:57 · 16 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think hes after sex since he knows you are saving yourself. Maybe he just realized that you were the best thing that ever happened to him and wants to rekindle a realtionship. Whatever he wants just make sure you take it slow, and make him work for you.
2007-01-28 11:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is clearly a female mentality. Put yourself in the guy's shoes. You never gave him anything.....which is good because you might be the only one that he ever met that way. It keeps them coming back; however, he might be up to something else. That whole thing of wanting to see you "every once in a while" just doesn't seem right to me as a woman, but ideal if I were a guy. Look, that statement sounds like a contract. Kind of like "let's see each other every once in a while, but without a commitment." Watch out. I'm not saying his a bad guy, but you need to be clear that he seems to have no intentions of committing to a relationship, but to something that happens "every once in a while."
2007-01-28 11:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with a friendly visit from an ex, "just for old times sake"..My ex-wife and I have been "having one off" periodically for the 19yrs we've been divorced.about everytime we are around each other for any reason, probably because its a harmless diversion and comfortable,we both know pretty well what the other wants/needs and no need for any awkwardness or guilt when she leaves town again afterward.
2016-03-29 07:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-22 16:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard to judge the motive of your ex. Anything of what you mentioned may be true. Time will tell what will be the result of your recent date and conversations with your ex. But its good, you are preparing yourself in every imaginable scenarios that may happen in the future.
All the best.
2007-01-28 11:40:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow it sounds like he has changed. If he was with you before, then he knows he won't get sex out of you. I don't think he would come back just for that especially if you've never done it before with him. I think he meant he wants to see you again as friends and talk and eventually get back together. He seems genuine from what you described. I hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-28 11:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl just go slow and see what he wants. Nobody knows what he wants other than him.
Some guys see a "no sex" girl as a challenge. If he tires out after a few weeks, you'll know he's not the one.
2007-01-28 11:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him what his intentions are. He could like everything about you but wants to continue a sexual relationship he is also enjoying at this time. (so maybe he is saving you for marriage)
2007-01-28 11:36:54 · answer #8 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just want to spend time with you and he is hoping that you will figure out something to relieve the tensions that are generated when you two are close together.
2007-01-28 11:34:58 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and watch how he acts, if he is trying to get on you then be more careful. other then that sounds like he wants to try and fix the relationship. I say give him a chance and see how it goes.
2007-01-28 11:37:05 · answer #10 · answered by Slappn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋