ex boyfriend of a year ago, we still remain good friends when we see ech other say hi etc, but he does the flirty body lanuage towards me he was the one who broke up & knows i still want him i'ts only when ignore him he trys to get my attention by flirting with other girls even with long distance girlfriends who i dont talk to anymore, i dont know why guys have a need to use other females to make a point to get you jelous or worse break your heart if you still lov them.. but my question is even though he flirts with other girls & distant girlfriend b/c i want him to want me again should I ignore & flirt with his friends i know that one thing guys hate it might tick him off, but he tells my friends off & that they should be looking out for me.. i am 27 he makes me should like i need baby sitting that i cant take care of my self. i act like i am happy around himeven though i still lov him&my heart breaks when he flirts like as if i didnt mean anything.what should i do b/c i want him back
2007-01-28 11:24:16 · 3 answers · asked by hi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can tell you that this isnt someone that genuinely likes or wants to be w/ you. forget about what u think he's doing 2 make u jealous. @ the end of it all, if he really wanted 2 be w/ you, he could & he knows it. like the other person said in their answer, the guy is using u to feed his ego. if a guy genuinely likes you, he'll do what it takes to make u his girlfriend & allow his accomplishment (of getting you) feed his ego. when u stop wanting him sooo bad, he'll sense this & appreciate u more. dont look desperate b/c they begin to forget that you can get other guys too.
2007-01-28 11:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Johnnie's cash🌴🌙☂✈ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it has to do with you flirting with other girls. If anything I think a guy would be more open to a possible threesome with another girl. It probably has to do with the fact you are flirting with other people, which is generally frowned upon whether you are gay, straight, or bisexual.
2016-03-29 07:01:19 · answer #2 · answered by Deborah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He enjoys playing you along because it feeds his ego to make you want him. That's not a very mature thing for him to do and at your age, I'd be looking for someone who was more grown up. I would not give him much time of day, just a brief hello and go on your way. You certainly don't need a babysitter. Move on; you don't love him as much as you love what you wish he was. He's not all that! He enjoys hurting you and I don't think you want someone who wants to see you hurt.
2007-01-28 11:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋