I do not condone it and never did. But is there anyone, especially women that would allow their husband/boyfriends to have sex with someone else if he told you in advance and not behind your back. No I am not crazy for asking this, it is an important question for me. Thank you for your help!
2007-01-28 11:20:53 · 17 answers · asked by Ed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I wouldn't let my boyfriend do that!!!! If your in a relationship you are with that one person not you and 5other people!
2007-01-28 11:27:11 · answer #1 · answered by shell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO! Open Sex does NOT work! Trust me! Even with permission the relationship will never be the same! Maybe someone or both will think it will work! But it will be the beginning of the end! Do other things but keep others out if you value and love your partner! Don't forget all the diseases either! Hurt and pain is all that will come out of it! Cheating behind the back is even worse, total deceit there!
2007-01-28 19:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guess what, when you are with a person man or woman and you are having sex with them and you ask them to be with someone else, what in the world do you think that will do to someone self esteem, especially if they are licking and humming, swallowing and doing everthing they think will make you happy, that's not good. What if the shoe is on the other foot, would you feel like knowing you don't measure up
2007-01-28 19:35:37 · answer #3 · answered by sodgirl6763 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never allow my husband to have sex with another woman ever, whether it was behind my back or not, and whether I was informed of it or not. The second he has sex with another woman, he might become infected with a disease, and, he runs the risk of getting her pregnant and having to pay child support all his life. (Not to mention the whole betrayal of his marriage vows!) I'd never condone any of that in a million years, and if he came to me and asked permission to cheat on me, I'd take that as a novel way of asking for a divorce.
In short - ADULTERY BAD. BAD BAD BAD. ALWAYS BAD.
2007-01-28 19:28:32 · answer #4 · answered by Guernica 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! Even though they were honest and told me about it up front, I still would not allow it. With all of the STD's and other diseases out there you never know what your parnter can bring home.
Another thing, if they want to have sex with another person, maybe they are not happy in the relationship that they are in and if sleeping with another person makes them happy, then I am not the one. If they asked me about it and I said no, I still would have some problems trusting my partner because its on their mind and they still may act on it.
2007-01-28 19:33:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you want them never to love you the same way. Think of indecent proposal besides the whole money issue. Even if you were asked it will always be in the back of their heads.
2007-01-28 19:26:23 · answer #6 · answered by raven25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, because u might end up with something. Are u going to go to the doctor with the both of them and find out what their health status is dont be crazy girl too many disease' out there
2007-01-28 19:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by QUTIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Technically thats worse. At least if you did it behind they're back you are trying to protect them. But um unless the girl wasn't so serious about you (which in that case wouldn't be your gf) then i guess that would be okay.
but thats still a kinda weird question to be so serious about.
2007-01-28 19:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by LeezeyBaby 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....NO WAY! Unless of course, the person was not in love with their partner & was going to end things anyways. But in other words, that is still not right. Even ASKING that could end your relationship, so be carefull. Hope I helped =]]
2007-01-28 19:26:32 · answer #9 · answered by Cookie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think i would allow my man to have sex with another because that dick is mine for the time being. i would rather not have him ****** another girl while he's with me because i would feel like im not what he wants or not good enough. unless i was not interested in having sex with him myself i would let him go get the pleaure that he prefers (sex) by another women ov course. or if it is a long distance relationship i would let him because im not there for him.
2007-01-28 19:28:29 · answer #10 · answered by youngjess90 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no to a boyfriend and a oh hell no to a husband doing this. dont let this man trick you into thinking its okay just because hes giving you the heads up on his intentions. if he do it you best be dropping him just for the disrespectful thought alone.
2007-01-28 19:27:47 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋