well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? also i got a friend to talk to her and she said she wanted to talk to me. then my friend called her while i was on the third line and my friend asked why she keeps looking at me during class and she said just to see what hes doing. then she kept going about the things she liked about me and then my friend asked do you like him and she said she'll tell him at school then they talked at school the next day and she does like me. i'm kinda confused now. i also noticed shes been trying to talk to me but is too shy. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. should talk to her?
2007-01-28 11:13:02 · 15 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her
Stop asking the same question
2007-01-28 11:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should break the ice. Start out by saying something random like "How much does a polar bear weigh?" and then after she looks at you with that confused look say "Enough to break the ice" and immediately after that start a normal conversation about something normal like "hey did you watch _____ last night". Then continue the conversation for as long as you can and avoid those awkward silences. When you feel that you are done just give her your number and if she calls talk to her about your issue. Speaking face to face is too much pressure for both of yall about this topic so i suggest IM or talk to her on the phone.
2007-01-28 11:23:03 · answer #2 · answered by Brown Nymph 07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she likes you but she is just shy..I was the same way towards guys that I liked..just try not to make her feel shy in front of you..give her reason not too be shy..if you like her too then try to hang out with her, say hello to her when u see her in the hallway..show her that u like you her too and that there is no reason to be shy..then she will probably start warming up to you..I did the same thing she did..all it is, is shyness..some girls are shy about that stuff and some arent..I was definately the shy one..lol.. Hope I helped any..Goodluck!
2007-01-28 11:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by angel_kissesl8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up and talk to her, you both obviously like each other, take her someone where quite at school and tell her you really like her and ask her out to the movies on the weekend and go from there.
2007-01-28 11:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bruce T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had to answer this question b-cuz this is the third question in a row that i read that had zen522 answer and the source he puts is always the same, it's a good source and makes him an awesome person. idk if it's a girl or guy but yeah back 2 u now
ummm...why are you going through all this trouble to find out if she likes u? do her friends not like u? that's what it sounds like, it sounds like she told them u asked her out, and they were like hell no and now she's shy b-cuz she realizes u like her and it feels different 2 b around u now. ~LOVE good luck.
2007-01-28 11:26:34 · answer #5 · answered by yeahyeahyeah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely talk to her. Give her a chance to say what's on her mind & tell her how you feel. The best thing to do is be straightforward & honest with each other from the beginning. Hope I helped =]]
2007-01-28 11:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you should talk to her if u want to be with her. I think her friends lied to you. When you have a question always talk to the person you have the question about. she sounds like she does the same thing i do. i do it because i don't want to approach him but i want him to approach me. believe me you guys should talk. go on a date and see how it works out
2007-01-28 11:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by youngjess90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you guys are a little young. you just have to be brave and ask her and be pretty straight forward about it. but if she is really shy and wont talk and you are too shy to ask her yourself (i mean you had your friend ask when you were on the 3rd line) then just forget about it. just try being friends.
2007-01-28 11:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get her to meet you in a private place and just simply ask her whats going on. Tell your that you've noticed her acting differently and you wanna know whats up. Just be honest but don't make her feel uncomfortable.
2007-01-28 11:18:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you SHOULD go and talk to her...maybe she has her own reason for not going out with you the last time you asked. try ask her one more time...and this time make sure you got the answer directly from her and not from someone else...good luck!!!
2007-01-28 11:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋