We went through alot of obstacles and I really love him. He is the only man I picture being with forever. My problem is that when we fight I cant just let it go until the next day. I always push it until it gets really bad. I don't want to push him away forever. We are both very stubborn people and I need to find a way to settle our problems without having a big conflict. What should I do?
2007-01-28 11:08:09 · 9 answers · asked by raven25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u need to get over it the night before u go to bed other wise ur relationship WILL go down hill quick. just remember the first 5 yrs are always the hardest!!!
2007-02-05 07:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Daydreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off every couple fights and that is natural. It is not healthy to hold on to hostility and to push your partner away, you love him. Second, you have already admitted and recognized you have a problem, so talk to him about it and work on it when this comes up, don't hurt him on purpose because you know you do and you need to stop. If you love him and can see spending forever with him, work on this now, because in the future it will get worse and could cause more problems. Nip it in the bud now.
2007-02-04 23:14:32 · answer #2 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go outside and get some fresh air for manybe 10 mins. Think about what you want and if the thing your fighting about is worth it.. Then go back in and tell him you love him and you both tell should tell each other your sorry weather his right or you are. Things won't be if you let things get to you. Stop pushing away and start resolving your problems. Ask your self will it matter in 20 mins, or in one week or even in a month. If not let it go.
2007-02-05 16:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a pair of boxing gloves and take it to the center of the living room and let the healing begin, you will both find it constructive and its a great workout. The making up gets a little pain full and teary but it is well worth it, leaves you breathless and you can not find the words, a very bonding moment in any relationship.
2007-02-05 15:37:51 · answer #4 · answered by GRANPA1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself cool down before you say another bad thing and talk a walk to cool off. You need to learn how to compromise with him on things you disagree with or it will never work.
2007-01-28 19:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you guys get into a fight.I would say walk away or leave the room for awhile.Then come back later and talk when you are all calm and everything.
2007-02-05 15:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by wahid d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i,ve been there,it,s hard to let go.give yourself some time.when u feel that way just go out anywhere until you haved cooled off some,and just do your best to forget it.otherwise things will just get worse,if u trully love him you,ll do whats best.good luck.
2007-02-05 12:34:10 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get couple's counseling
2007-02-05 08:10:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a link to this question or ask him your self.
-Tell him!!!-
2007-02-05 16:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by woody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋